Some help please!

Well, I've never been in this situation so I can't promise I'll be any help, but here's what i think I'd do:

seterusnya time your parents compare anda to him, explain to them, politely, that you'd rather not be compared- that you'd rather be considered your own person rather than something to live up to, and that it hurts anda when they compare you.

anda say anda live arts, Muzik and literature, so perhaps if anda write atau sing atau draw etc, maybe anda could tunjuk them something you've done that you're proud of, and tunjuk them that that's who anda are, and this is what you're good at.

Hope this helps :)

when i was in 5th standard my mother used to compare me with one of my frndz. but i never minded her coz i knew she may be better than me atau worse than me but not like me..... I did in wht i hv intrest and now my maa is satisfied but sometimes teases me sejak comparing me with my best frnd saying that she cums first and anda fourth atau fifth. see no one like comparision so just do what anda want to do.... yep don't leave ur studies behind and don't compete with him coz if u will then he will get grades less than u.:) be happy...

i could write an entire speech about this but i have answer this qn before. about the dame situation.

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