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May I have a little help, please?

I know soalan like this have probably been asked before, but I haven't found anything to help me. Yes, it's one of those "I like this guy..." things. ^^;

I'm not going to mention his name atau anything, in fear that he would find this. He's a really nice guy and my friend says that I should just tell him how I feel, but it's really hard for me to do so. I really fear the rejection (and I've never done this before, obviously. ^^; ). Another problem is that he lives somewhere else. I met him online.

Before anyone starts going crazy over it, I know that he's not a stranger atau a "creeper". I've talked to him on webcam before, and I've talked to him long before we've done so. We're pretty good friends, and we talk to each other every day. Some things make me think that he likes me but, as my friend put it before, it's the internet. Thus, it's hard to tell.

If anyone can help me out, that would be great. ^^ I can also fill anda in with a little lebih info if it's needed. Thank you.
 Chibi-Baka3 posted hampir setahun yang lalu
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BabyBlud said:
Well all i can say is anda will never know until anda meet face to face.
I'm in a stable relationship, i even have a child and a utama of my own, and yet i still flirt over the internet with one of my greatest internet friends.
Friednly internet flirting is not hurting anybody, it's just a bit of harmless fun in my mind.
If you're still of school age i'd leave it until anda are able to meet up and hang out. However if anda are going to meet him, agree to bring a friend along each. Just in case. Sounds drastic i know, but someone i once knew met a man online and befriended him. They talked often, on and off webcam for over 5 years, yes, 5. They agreed to meet up, and seeing as she thought she knew him she went alone. seterusnya thing anda know this guy had raped her and tried to strangle her to death. As anda can imagine she was very upset and he still has not been caught believe it atau not. They no longer talk which i think is a very good thing.
So even though you've seen this guy on webcam, that doesn't mean anything.
of course, i'm not saying this guy anda like is a total freak. all i'm saying is be patient.
If anda think anda could have a go with it (a relationship over the internet) just tell him of your feelings, and just say even if he doesn't feel the same way anda hope it won't impair his thoughts of anda atau your friendship to each other.
A long distance, over the internet relationship could go well, with me i have never gotten the hang of them, but some people have even married online and are still living on the other side of the world as husband and wife. Strange..maybe, but sometimes it works.
I say go for it, but with caution. See where it gets anda :)

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I've thought of that before; I already decided that I would bring my friend along if I were to go and meet him. And yeah, I was expecting most of the things that anda had said. ^^; I'm a very cautious person, so there's no worry about me doing something really stupid. xD I would also Cinta to go for it, but I'm still really scared of saying it. I berkata it to my friend multiple times, but she just keeps saying "Just tell him, dang it!" I'm still just so confused... >_>
Chibi-Baka3 posted hampir setahun yang lalu
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...Jeez, way to say "just" a whole lot of times... xD; My bad.
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1JUSTIN-BIEBER said:
i believe that ur cautious and how far away is this guy that u like?? and does another friend like no this guy and video chats him?? cause if so u should ask ur friend 2 ask him like secretly do u like (whatever ur name is) and see what he says..just tell ur friend 2 say like i wont tell her and she actually does tell u though.. plz tell me if u have any problems with this! i no how u feel!
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Actually, I was thinking about that. I wasn't sure if I should, though, 'cause he might get a little suspicious. ^^; I might just try it anyway. And he lives in Canada, about four hours away from where I'm at. One of my Friends was with me when I first vid chatted with him, but I was using my laptop; she doesn't have one, neither does her regular computer (no Skype, etc).
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