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I am terribly sorry if my soalan sounds retarded...

...But is there a way anda can determine your orientation FOR GOOD? Without any unnecessary drama and months-years of patiently waiting?

I'm starting to think that I'm Bi. But I'm still not all that sure; I am attracted to boys mostly, but recently I noticed that I am also slightly attracted to girls (or maybe I'm just what anda call "Bi-Romantic"?)

So out of utter stupidity I went and asked my mom. She looked at me, sighed and asked: "What exactly do anda want to do with girls?" And her tone kinda shocked/offended me so I didn't answer. After few saat of awkward silence she berkata "You are normal". This conversation still kinda bothers me, in the back of my head.

So if there IS a way, please tell me.
If there isn't...Well what do I do now? How can I find out?

And if it turns out, in the future, that I AM Bi (romantic atau sexual, doesn't matter)..How the hell am I going to tell my mom? A reaction along the lines of "Oh really" atau "You're not normal" kind of scares me, with all honesty.
 MarMar_XigLux posted hampir setahun yang lalu
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Chibi-Baka3 said:
Well, the way I see it is that time is a big factor. I know that anda don't want to wait, but that just might be the only way. anda can't just decide one hari that you're going to be one thing, because the seterusnya hari anda might just be another. Cinta comes in strange ways that we all don't understand, and whatever happens, happens.

What anda should do is calm down and think things over for a bit. In my eyes, there is no shame in liking both genders; everyone is different, yet some are the same in these situations. You're never the only person.

And thinking of things that your mother would say is natural (although I can't say this from experience atau anything, but I know that it would be normal; I've seen these cases.) If anda are, then anda should just be honest and tell her. She's your mother, and should Cinta anda no matter who anda like atau who anda are in general. Let there be no shame in the person that anda are.
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Thank anda so much for answering. :) Yes..I guess I'm kinda rushing..I'll just wait and see then. :)
MarMar_XigLux posted hampir setahun yang lalu
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No problem. ^^ Good luck.
Chibi-Baka3 posted hampir setahun yang lalu
thechampishere said:
well that's a freegin hard one. well, first parent always bother u atau make things lebih frustrating, it's their nature. but the only way to find out for sure is to put it on paper, get any emotion that u feel and just scribble it down. it can just be Rawak words about how u react to both genders, atau it can be orderly. the read it over and over, write new thing if they pop up. talk to bi people u know and how they dealt with their feelings and see if it matches the paper. then its up to u to react on how u wanna swing. (i hope i helped XD)
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Thanks for answering. XD Nice idea, sejak the way.
MarMar_XigLux posted hampir setahun yang lalu
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