I have a pretty weird social life..thing..or whatever.Anybody care to shed some light on it?

In a soalan like this, you'll naturally get mixed results. Not saying this as a bad thing, though; anda could get lebih suggestions and opportunities to find out what's really going on.

To me, it sounds as if this boy may like you. If anda give it a chance, maybe you'll get to see his true side. If anda don't want to step that far, then just talk with him and say that anda can be completely honest with each other; there's no need to feel tense atau nervous about anything. anda won't bite each other's heads off. ^^;

And this girl that anda have talked about... It's hard to say. She may be a little curious of same-gender relationships, atau maybe she's just clingy to you. Some Friends can be like this, and it could be another natural thing. If it really bothers anda that much, then anda have the right to ask her what's going on. I don't mean to suddenly back her into a corner and interrogate her, however. Take things calmly and discuss this, and try to find out why she does these things. If she's merely a clingy person, then be honest and tell her how anda feel about what she's doing. Be careful, though. anda don't want to really hurt her feelings.

Let's just take this into account just in case: Let's say that she does like you. It's never happened to me (so I can't explain what anda may feel), but whatever it is that anda feel inside, tell her. If you're unable to return her feelings, make sure that it's known lightly. Once again, we don't want to wreck anything and create any bad blood. anda could tell her that anda could still be friends, if anda decide to say so.

I'm going to rewind for a moment just to put a little lebih thought into things. Going back to the guy that may like you: he might also act "tense and nervous" because of his baru-baru ini breakup. Maybe something really bad happened between him and his ex, possibly like she was cheating on him. Anyone would be upset with whatever the reason was, however, and their trust in others may diminish. Give it a little time, and he might calm down and tunjuk anda who he really is. It's good to be a great friend to him before making a big step.

I hope that this helps.

So, your first question. That boy might like anda as a friend but its also natural for a guy to become sexually tense around girls...especially in middle school. Maybe, he DOES like anda atau wants to hang out atau something. Get to know him, get friendly, DONT menyeberang, cross his girlfriend atau try to get cozy with him UNTIL LATER. He will freak out, trust me. As for the girl, its possible, but anda might get the wrong idea though. Is she your friend? If she is, atau isn't, POLITELY ask her to stop touching you. If she doesn't take it well, speak to your school counselor about her. Dont give names atau lapor her. BUT if she gets extreme, like Ciuman and *ahem* touching, anda know what to do. Hope I helped!! xx