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My friend has this situation going on with his girlfriend and I wanna help him.
It started like this, he got into a fight with her because she thinks he (my friend) is a jealous person. Then they forgave each other. The following day, he asked her if she is still mad with him, she berkata no. Then earlier at school, he went to talk to her, but she refused, saying she's busy and everything but she really isn't. He's asking me if, there's something wrong with him.

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 mitchie19 posted hampir setahun yang lalu
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Zukania99 said:
There's nothing wrong with him, there's something wrong with HER!!! i mean,why can't she just tell him what the problem is, rather than keeping it to herself.
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BabyBlud said:
Agreed ^

This girl seems to be the one with the problem, whether that be personal with family atau with her feelings towards your friend.
I suggest he sit her down and talk to her. She may be having problems at utama atau in school/work that she thinks no one else should know. It could be something to do with pride. 'I can't tell him cos then he'll think i can't take care of myself, women are strong too' kind of thing.

Your friend needs to tell her, that even if she does have a problem, and it may sound silly to her, that he will always take her seriously and help when asked to. Even if she doesn't tell him what is going on through her mind, in the end she will be grateful for a shoulder to cry on atau uplifting hugs.
But your friend shouldn't take any crap. Be supportive but firm with what he needs and deserves out of the relationship, and if she still doesn't respond, i would say she's not in Cinta with him anymore and he's better out of it.
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