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Friends how much do anda talk about?

Do anda talk about everything and anything with your best friend atau do anda have subjects anda stay clear of for reasons such as embarrasement atau sensitivity atau some other reason. I ask because my friend has suddenly decided there are certain things she does not want me talking about but when I ask for certain subjects to be off limits she takes offence. I don't want to fall out with her as she is probably moving to Spain but the rate its going I think it may happen.
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just make sure u know eachothers boundaries. tell if if theres something she doesnt want u talking about to just tell u nicely. anda guys are best Friends be open communicate tell her u feel alittle bad atau whatever she will listen.
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BabyBlud said:
It depends on the idividual Friends for me. There are two Friends i have told everything and anything, knowing they will not judge me atau dispise me and will be able to offer hope and support when i feel low when the memories hit me. Other friends, certain things for me are off limits and i respect their decision if they do not feel like telling me anything.
However - if your friend believes she should know everything about you, but does not respect anda enough to tell anda everything about her, then i can't see the relationship going anywhere.
anda should tell your friend that anda respect her decision not to tell anda things, but she in turn should respect the same of you. If anda do not want to tell her things, she shouldn't push at anda atau become huffy about it, as that is not what a friend is supposed to be.
It could be she justs wants to help, but all the same, she can easily sympathise and encourage and hold anda up sejak the sidelines not knowing anything, then knowing every little detail.
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