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Ive got Cinta issues.. well hati, tengah-tengah break ones...

Ive loved the same guy for like.. 3 years now.. we went out twice and he turned out to be a massive asshole.. i really miss him.. but at the same time.. i hate him and dont wanna know him. He stopped talkin to me like a bulan ago.. and im loosing myself.. i really wanna be with him.. being with another guy made me hate myself.. i didnt last a bulan with another guy, It really hurts, i miss him.. but like.. i dnt know wether to belive that he really loved me.. atau that he was using me.. i feel so shit.. i Cinta him, i hate him.. i wanna miss him.. but i like.. arrg! its so confusing.
what do i do.. letting him go is the hardest part..
Ive stopped talkin to him like hes stopped talkin to me.. but its not helping me. i miss him .. alot.. all these other people think im heartbroken over the gut i tried to replace him with.. but its a load of shit... but i realy dont know what to do..
 _Blackhearts_xx posted hampir setahun yang lalu
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amazondebs said:
woa woa woa whats all this talk about death?

i know it sucks to really like someone and have them turn out to be something else and such but (and not to sound really cliche here) but he really ain't worth it if he's so imature as to not to talk to you

my Nasihat would be to have a night out (or in) with a group a Friends maybe watch some films, go for a meal, hang out at the park atau i dunno what ever makes anda happy (iceskating always cheers me up, hard work to take anda mind off things and lots of giggles when anda fall over) it won't be a magic over night cure but reminding yourself of the boys come and go and Friends are for life ideology is a great start
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posted hampir setahun yang lalu 
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Thanks (: thats really helpful! ;D
_Blackhearts_xx posted hampir setahun yang lalu
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welcome :)
amazondebs posted hampir setahun yang lalu
cuteinblack6 said:
I feel so sorry for you! i bet anda are just wanting to die.

well anyways i think anda should give him up. and anda dated 2 times? thats not good. i know its hard just to give him up, but look, anda have a life to alih on. i bet lots of guys will like you.and he is a massive asshole because he needs to make up his mind.

Just forget about him ok? its fine. its not like someone is going to hurt anda sejak the choice. just cheer up ok?


hope that helped!

~cuteinblack6~
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posted hampir setahun yang lalu 
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Yeah it hurts alot.. and i just wanna yea die.. Like i know, but its hard, we only broke up cause like i thought it was fallin apart.. but when we got back together agin. it was worse.. i just cant belive how stupid i was.. im tryin to let go... i guess (: thanks x
_Blackhearts_xx posted hampir setahun yang lalu
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If it wasn't any good when anda were together then either it's not going to work so I guess you'll have to accept. But I know it reeeeally sucks :( I feel for you.
snoznoodle posted hampir setahun yang lalu
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mm yeah..
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JazzLover101 said:
I understand and your just waiting and wanting for death to come. And if anda really feel like that strong about him start off being his friend that will take the hole out of your hati, tengah-tengah and anda can still tarikh other guys plus if anda get to know him while your Friends with him well maybe eventually maybe anda could start dating again but at least anda will have something to stand on while/if anda tarikh again anda know lebih about eachother it will be though at first but its worth it. If this doesn't help just **sigh** just listen to your hati, tengah-tengah and think about your possible jawapan listen to your kegemaran Muzik while anda think it will help anda even lebih {trust me!!!}. Give yourself a chance to think about him them for a while just forget about him {and just keep in mind he broke anda hati, tengah-tengah twice ouch}
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posted hampir setahun yang lalu 
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He wont even tak to me, he completelyy ignores me... and if i do talk to h im.. hes just like.. hi.. yeah.. k.. ect..
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