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Chibi-Baka3 said:
Oi... Sounds like a whole lot on the plate.
So this guy is a player? I would take caution around this guy; that is, if I were you. I can only imagine how difficult it is, however, learning the truth about him even though anda like him so much. It makes it especially hard that you've seemed to find "a lot of the stuff [you] want in a guy". It's a little difficult for me to give a straightforward answer...
Well, if I were faced with a situation like this, I would be too cautious and just forget about it. I wouldn't want to go out with a player, and then find out seterusnya week that he was giving a girl "the eyes" (as people used to say, atau might still). That would really break my heart. I wouldn't want to suggest trying to change him, because if there's one thing that I've learned, it's that men don't really change -- either at all, atau it takes countless years. Words from my mother, anyway, and it seems to be true to me because my dad is still the same in my xx years of life. Don't take this as prejudice against guys atau anything; I'm just trying to give some kind of warning.
I think this kind of situation would be best decided sejak you. anda just need a lot of time to think over these things. No one berkata that it would be easy, but once anda think of what'll be beneficial for not only anda but for others, it'll help anda out in the long run. Actions that people take can harm lebih than one person, and it's common for us to neither look at what could happen to another atau what it could do to our future.
Our minds may be different, but if anda were to get enough opinions on what others think -- atau suggestions -- anda might get a general idea. anda don't have to take any of these things, but anda can use them to give anda leverage. Let it help anda build lebih knowledge and understanding on the situation, and anda should be able to come out with an answer. Time may not wait for anyone, but there's always enough for someone to think something over. The time used wisely is time well-spent.
I hope that this helps anda in some way, and I wish anda good luck. If anda have any lebih questions, don't hesitate to ask.
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