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is it weird ?

is it weird to have so much in with anda best guy friend that u kinda had a crush on and u talk to him and find out that almost every thing u want in life he wants to ? i cant tell if he likes me though we flirt all the time and pick on each other but i cant tell.
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Chibi-Baka3 said:
No, I don't think that it's weird at all. In fact, I find this to be quite normal.

I have a guy friend who I thought the same thing towards; we both liked the same things, we would tease each other sometimes, and we would have a lot of the same outlooks on different subjects. I was thinking that he didn't like me back, but I was wrong. However, I'm not telling anda anything about how he feels; I, of course, don't know him and don't know his feelings either. But I am telling anda that anda can have a chance, so don't feel as if he'll never feel the same atau anything like that.

I think that anda should grab some of your Friends to help anda out if you're too scared/nervous to ask him yourself. Just tell him how anda feel, and straight to the point. Another guy friend of mine helped me along with my best friend when I was trying to tell my bf how I feel about him. That friend berkata that guys like straight-forward answers. They're all different, sure, but if anda want to try that then go ahead. He IS your friend, though, and after all anda should know what he likes. If he likes poems atau something like that, convey your feelings that way. I'm just giving some examples here.

I'm sure that anda can do it. Just don't give up and, even if he doesn't feel the same, anda can still be the great Friends that anda are. He might even like anda right now. anda can never be sure until anda check it out sejak yourself -- atau with help, if anda so prefer. Good luck to you, and feel free to ask any other soalan anda may have.
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thanks soo much im glad im not the only one that feels like this im just so confused cause iv liked this guy for 3 years but it isnt going any where aactually hes kinda a keldai to me and trys to use me so im not sure what i should to i dont want to just dich this guy but my bff always makes me smile and i have soo many good thaught of us when we hungout so its just a lot to take in at once i guess
bieberet posted hampir setahun yang lalu
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Hmm... anda should ask him why he acts like such an a** to you, and why he uses anda in the first place. Be sure that anda think things through all the way, alright? Always think of the what-ifs.
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thanks
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greengirl911 said:
It's not weird. i HAD a crush on my best guy friend till yesterday. But i wanted to give up a long time lalu and since we were bff's i told him everything. And it wasn't weird at all.
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bieberet posted hampir setahun yang lalu
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u know when i finally stopped i tore a pic he gave me and ripped apart some other stuff he gave me.i only kept the friendship band.cuz the other things reminded me that he could someday be sth lebih than a friend. but sweetie i could tell he wasn't the one. good luck
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