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should i cut?

i'm really depressed. i feel alone and don't know what to do. should i cut myself?
 Castalinia posted hampir setahun yang lalu
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Chibi-Baka3 said:
Whoa there, hold on! anda shouldn't do things like that!

I understand that people can feel depressed -- and it's actually a phase in life that people go through -- but anda shouldn't go harming yourself for it. anda haven't done anything wrong; you're lonely and obviously need a companion. I don't mean a boyfriend/girlfriend, but maybe just a good friend to be there with you. Do that as soon as anda can, as it'll help anda feel alright.

I think that anda should also consider seeing someone. Don't take this the wrong way atau anything, but anda DON'T want it to get worse. Leaving something like this alone, which seems to be just a "harmless" thought, will manifest into something worse. anda might start to actually cut yourself, and then things will continue to go downhill. Things will stay the same (and most likely get worse) without talking to someone about this. Go see a psychiatrist; they're the ones who are able to administer medicine. They will listen to anda and be able to tell anda what anda can do to help yourself, and give anda the things that will benefit anda to bring anda to a healthier, happier life.

Above all with what everyone's telling you, and to also summarize in ways, DON'T CUT. No one deserves to get hurt if they're feeling depressed, as none of it is their doing. Feelings come and go, but some can be really dangerous. Just make sure to keep looking out for yourself. You're doing good so far; anda came here to seek out help. That's the first step that's usually the hardest: admitting that something isn't right and talking to someone about it. Tell your parents what's going on and make an appointment.

Good luck to you, and I wish to see anda in good health. If anda have any soalan atau need to talk, feel free to message me at any time.
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Thank anda so much. i already think that anda will be great to talk to. thank anda sooo much for your help. it helped me a lot.
Castalinia posted hampir setahun yang lalu
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Thank anda for your compliments, and you're welcome. Any time.
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stramming said:
NO! I have Friends who do that, and only pain comes of it. No "letting out emotions" atau any of that crap. Just don't. Read a book atau something.
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thanks.
Castalinia posted hampir setahun yang lalu
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Same!
BeastBoyCahill posted hampir setahun yang lalu
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O_o they raped my wall...
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LinkKinuzuma13 said:
ABSOLUTELY NOT.
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i wont'......i hope...
Castalinia posted hampir setahun yang lalu
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Sriously, don't. Just pray to god, and he'll help anda , even in ways uinexpected. And yeah, my moto is also my confirmation verse! ^^
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londonsrock said:
Don't cut yourself, that is not going to help you.
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ok. thanks i wont
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chickencheese said:
I know people have answered this already, but honestly, it's the worst thing anda could end up doing.
I ended up in that habit, and am still working on stopping- it's not just a thing anda do once, if it goes too far it's an addiction. It's not just harmful to yourself either, it hurts all those around you.
It doesn't help anything, and once anda start it's really hard to stop before it goes too far
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YES.
BeastBoyCahill posted hampir setahun yang lalu
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okay then...um...maybe...maaaaybe i wont cut.....
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I-Luv-L said:
Don't be dramatic anda should never want to do stuff like that even if your depressed all ya gotta is realize that your important,beautiful and smart.Some hari someone will notice that and Cinta anda for what anda are and who anda are.They will be there for anda everyday all day.That person may come today,tommmorrow,a week from now atau a bulan but remember this.Don't cut yo
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Thanks. That helps a lot. i guess that Cinta is what i need. atau just someone to be there for me always. i feel alone so it made me empty.
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4422 said:
no dont disfigure ur body so u wont regret it later
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Okay. i had a friend who cut herself and she berkata it helped. But the scars were scary...
Castalinia posted hampir setahun yang lalu
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did u want 2 take dat risk
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vampiressJazz said:
DONT!
I learned the hardway when I was 14, it doesnt work it makes anda feel worse and if people find out ... You'll get teased a lot( anda don't want to be called an emo) if anda feel depressed then write in a diary atau talk to someone who will listen no matter what.
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Okay. i'll try to do that. thank you. and sejak the way, i already get called Emo all the time
Castalinia posted hampir setahun yang lalu
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It's not nice is it, and it would be even worse if it was true wouldn't it? If its not the truth anda can ignore it but if it is.... It's kind of hard not to.
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darkwave said:
No.
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okay...
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Prawls8612 said:
Please don't!!! I know someone who cut herself and ended up in the hospital. Pray, read, watch funny videos, atau read comics. Do things that make anda happy :) Pain is never the answer.
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para-scence said:
No, don't. Trust me, I know from experience. It doesn't make anything better. In fact, sometimes it just makes it worse. It's not worth it at all. Whatever you're going through, you'll get through it. anda can message me atau something if anda need to talk. :)
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also, think of your friends. I have a friend who did it, and even though i did too, it made me physically sick to see her all cut up like that. And she didn't even have many scars. It's scary, and your Friends would worry. Just go to your Friends atau anyone else who can help you. :)
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