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Chibi-Baka3 said:
Depression could cause certain thoughts to enter someone's mind, but if it goes so far as to think of suicide -- whether atau not one wants to attempt it -- then I think it's time to see a psychiatrist.
Now this isn't always the option, as some of these cases aren't severe, but anda should always think ahead of time for it. I suggest that anda talk to a counselor at least; anda don't want this to get worse. There are some things in here that make me think that you're overreacting a bit. Sorry, I don't want to make this sound rude atau anything. I'll level with you: I have these moments too.
I think that you're thinking of these things because you're obviously stressed out. Think over what anda wrote down: anda berkata that anda weren't satisfied with your test grades and your Biology class. I'm having problems in Chemistry myself, but there's something I have to say for that: continue to work hard, always ask questions, get some tutoring if anda think anda need it, and above all: DON'T PANIC. anda can be surprised of how things can turn out, and I learned that several times during the past month. It can be really irritating when one thinks that they can do better when they get a bad grade, but keep the thoughts to yourself for a while. When anda get home, talk about it with your parents, sibling(s), and/or friends. Take a breather. I'm sure there are plenty of opportunities to redeem yourself, and I trust that you'll be able to take the chances when it comes.
For that guy that anda like, don't think so pessimistically. anda never know how someone feels about you, and anda should always hold your head up high, no matter what the outcome is. Better to prove that you're a stronger person in the world than to be easily downhearted sejak it. These are everyday challenges that can get us down no problem, but there are times when we have to think to ourselves, "Hey, is it really worth it to feel this bad?" If you're confident enough, I think that anda should go up to him and talk to him about how anda feel. If anda don't think it's time yet, then go with your instincts. Everything takes time and doesn't happen immediately, and it's as they say: patience is a virtue.
To recap: calm down, don't stress out, and always think optimistically. If anda think that things aren't getting better, anda can talk to any of us on here atau someone who anda think might help you. If your thoughts worsen and/or anda think that anda might do something bad to yourself atau someone else, go on and talk to a counselor atau set up an appointment for a psychiatrist/psychologist. (In case anda want differences: counselors listen to your problems and discuss with anda what anda can do to make things better; psychiatrists diagnose things like depression and other problems and are able to administer medicine; psychologists study behavior and could do the same as a counselor, but to a higher degree.)
Good luck to you, and feel free to ask any other soalan that anda may have.
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