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How can I make the first move?

I really like this guy and we seem to have a lot in common He plays baseball and I play softball and we are both pitchers. We are Friends and we text but I usually always end up texting him first (except twice he texted me first). I hardly ever see him in school. Maybe once in the morning but I would only pass sejak him so I hardly ever talk to him in person (and this would be in the morning before school starts).

I sent him another text yesterday asking him how his game went but he didn't respond yet. I can't tell if he likes me atau not atau if he thinks we are just friends. Is there any way I can improve our relationship without making me seem desperate atau obvious? I want him to ask me out but I just don't feel like waiting and I really want to know if he likes me. I'm in highschool so its one of those kinds of things anyone can relate to.

Any Nasihat please? Thanks!
 Prawls8612 posted hampir setahun yang lalu
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Chibi-Baka3 said:
I think that the best way to try getting closer to someone is just sejak being good Friends with them.

People always say it, but it's true: be yourself, because there are people out there who will like anda for you. It seems that anda two are good friends, but I think that anda should talk to each other in real life lebih often. Texting is fine and helpful for when anda can't actually see each other, but good old face-to-face communication is useful as well. Talk about things anda do when you're texting, like how his game had gone. Start up Rawak conversations and learn lebih about him. Prove to him that you're a great person sejak doing what anda normally do, being there for him, etc.

It takes time and I know anda berkata that anda didn't want to wait, but it does take time for relationships like this to grow. None of us can really tell if someone likes another, unless it's dead-obvious. (Or if you're like my best friend, who can tell a lot of things.) I think that, if you're too impatient for him to ask anda out, anda should make the first move.

It's really scary and nerve-wracking to think about and attempt (trust me, I've been there), but it could be worth it in the end. Build some confidence after anda talk to him for a while, and I'm sure that things will go fine. Just keep your head up high, think of the positive, and don't sweat the small stuff. In fact, I wouldn't sweat anything that hasn't even happened, and probably won't.

Good luck to you, and feel free to ask any other soalan that anda may have.
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Thanks for your help! And anda are right. Relationships take time to grow. I should be lebih patient with this.
Prawls8612 posted hampir setahun yang lalu
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All things take some amount of time, and patience IS good to have. I'm sure that anda can do it!
Chibi-Baka3 posted hampir setahun yang lalu
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Did anda ask him atau did he ask you? atau did anda just become better friends?
Prawls8612 posted hampir setahun yang lalu
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