hei i reeli feel i shuld help this guy,hes started 2 smoke,an i dk how 2 convince him its wrong.

In my personal experience, fighting with smokers is a losing battle. If anda try to confront him openly about quitting, odds are he'll get angry and perceive it as a judgmental attack (which, generally, it kind of is).

But if anda talk to him and tell him that it makes anda nervous-- nothing about him atau his health atau how he should stop-- he may listen to that. Ask him if he would at least not smoke around YOU.

The thing is, most smokers have seen all the anti-smoking commercials. They've heard the propaganda phrases ("kissing a smoker is like licking an ash tray") and they've generally sat through a health class that's told them all the problems that comes with smoking. And yet, people do it anyway.

We have to remember that no matter what we may think of smoking and smokers, it is inevitably, their life and their choice. The only people who might make them stop, and the only ones who should openly criticize the habit, is the smoker's parents. Because while it may be his choice and his life, he's their child and their legacy.

As a friend, make your opinions known, but try not to sound like you're attacking his choice. Make the casual komen when anda see a smoldering cigarette that anda think it's gross. If he hears how much anda don't like the habit in general, rather than anda don't like HIM smoking, he may try to quit. That's the best Nasihat I can give you.

Smoking is like drugs.If anda don't understand that anda must not start it's much lebih difficult to stop cause anda think anda need it.Tell him that if it is his choise he should tell his mother to talk about it and help him to.But don't u tell his mom cause he'll hate you.