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How can I convince my friend to stop trying to find a boyfriend through facebook?

My friend meets weird guys at fb and starts relationships without having ever met them and after a while she starts dating them in real life.This happened with her first boyfriend who sejak the way all he wanted was to hook up with her.She told me that he was asking her to have sex before they even met each other!!I think that she knew about all the guys she's met this way that their profiles were real,but it's still really dangerous.Later she met another guy at fb that she liked and wanted to date.They went out a few times but I think they never became a couple.Well yesterday guess what ' she told me that she found a new boyfriend at fb and yesterday she was meeting him in person for the first time.It was my 18th birthday and we went out nd she told me that he'd invited her boyfriend to meet us.My friend didn't even know his name right and when they met after a while he started licking her and french kissing.They kept doing this for a couple of hours.I was not only insulted but also really shocked because this guy was actually a stranger for her.She's not a slut we've been Friends for 2-3 years,but she's really desperate for having a boyfriend and finding Cinta and thinks this'll happen sejak dating Rawak guys she meets online.She's a very nice girl,but she doesn't feel confident to approach a boy she likes and have a normal relationship.I've told her many times that she will never meet a nice guy this way and if she meets some kind of psycho god knows what may happen.How can I help her?
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I was chatting with my friend yesterday and I asked her how long she's known the guy.Now do the math ;She met him at fb at 25 December ,they bacame a couple at 27 December and at 28 December (when we went out for my birthday) they met for the first time and started Ciuman and licking in front of me!!!Please help meee!
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lzzie said:
I think anda need to talk to an adult figure about this issue, like perhaps her parents atau a teacher. atau if anda have other Friends anda could form an intervention. The point is anda can't "fix" her on your own, anda need help.
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anda have a point but she's an adult now and I don't think I have the right to tell her parents anything.I study at universiti now and we aren't together at school any more.We talked about this yesterday and she told me that only her mum knows about the boys she dates.She berkata that when she was at middle school her father hit her once because she went out with a guy she met at fb.Even if I talked to them since her mother lets her going out with strangers and her father beats her up about it I wouldn't achieve anything.Her parents are definitely a big part of the problem but I can't fix them either.A friend intervention might help I don't...Thanks for your Nasihat ;)
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Oh, that information might have been useful before! In that case, the friend intervention seems like the best idea. If you're very concerned about her safety, which it sounds like anda should be, I would find a group an organization, I'm not sure. Just some way people she doesn't know can help her? >.<
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