If we're just counting the sex, and not what happened after it. I'm not even sure Buffy enjoyed her first time with Spike, because at that point the relationship was a way for her to be destructive. It was sexual self harm. Later, in season 7 the relationship deepened and became meaningful to Buffy, but at this point it was about her being in self destruct mode, nothing else

hate hate hate hate hate hate hate bangel sex scene! sorry :)

*hyperventilates thinking about it*
seriously, that scene is hot!

I think I might only be choosing this one because well its Spuffy, plus its HOT!!!

while i do think spike and buffy's sex scene was hot...definitely hot....but what i think was so incredible about buffy and angel's sex scene is that in the few flashbacks they actually show of them having sex- you just see angels back, their lips kissing...little small bits and pieces-- you don't really see angel thrusting into her, buffy screaming or gasping for air---- they barely show anything that would typically be considered sexual- yet the scene is SOOOO sexual. you can tell how intense and passionate it was from just those little scenes without trying to be overtly sexual.

plus...forgetting the consequences to this...knowing that angel's one true moment of happiness was making love to buffy--- it's pretty freggin sweet!!

So romantic ^^

her with Angel was more romantic and it was her first time so it was special. but with spike was because she was still in pain from being brought back

Smashed is yuck .-. Buffy's soul is falling apart and you like it. Bah.