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I'm a Christian teen and I need some help, it's about dating.

There is a guy in my youth group that I've liked for 11 months, about six months lalu he finally got on the right path with God and I liked him even more. We started talking lebih then. The closer we got as Friends the lebih I liked him. Two months lalu I told him that I liked him and now we never talk.

WHAT SHOULD I DO? Please help me, I don't know what to do. I've prayed and prayed but can someone please give me some advise?
 hottie23 posted hampir setahun yang lalu
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abs07 said:
Have anda asked God to give anda peace about the situation? Sometimes we just have to let these things go. Have anda tried talking to him? Like small talk to smooth things over? If anda have & he gave/gives anda the cold shoulder then I'd back off. If anda really feel like there's something left to say after much prayer & seeking God, then ask Him to guide your words if anda need to confront the guy. Be nice. If you're ok being his friend, let him know if that's what God puts on your heart. If he's still standoffish after that, I'd definitely leave the him alone cause clearly he'd have a lot of growing up to do...
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posted hampir setahun yang lalu 
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I've asked God for peace but every time I come close to finding peace this guy will do something that my feelings for him come back. Thanks for the help:)
hottie23 posted hampir setahun yang lalu
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Well just be Friends with him if he doens't want to tarikh anda not saying your feeling would just go away but at least he's Friends with anda then who knows mayba he will start to like anda back ♥
huddygirl2 posted hampir setahun yang lalu
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It's ok to have feelings but asking God for peace isn't a one time deal. anda have to seek him daily for the help for renewed strength and grace with the situation. So that whether things work out atau not, anda will be fantastic with God at your side.
abs07 posted hampir setahun yang lalu
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thank anda both, that really helped me:)
hottie23 posted hampir setahun yang lalu
nathoonder said:
Sometimes when i find myself troubled i ask myself, how will this situation effect me in ten years? But I konw its sucks having a broken hati, tengah-tengah but keep prayihng and get support from your Friends is the only Nasihat i have to give in that regard. Hope everything works out 4 u.
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thanks for the advice:)
hottie23 posted hampir setahun yang lalu
LadyL68 said:
He stoped talking to anda after anda berkata anda like him? I'm sorry.

Maybe he likes anda too, & just wasn't ready for a relationship. atau maybe he only liked anda as a friend.

Either way, it's worth talking to him. Call him atau confront him seterusnya time anda go to Church. Ask him if he's angry, & apologise if anda offended him in any way. Tell him you're ready to get back on track with him.
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posted hampir setahun yang lalu 
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thanks for the Nasihat but it's been four months since i've talked to him and i've pretty much gotten over him. i apologized and tried to talk to him about things but he blew me off. we go to diffenrent churches now and i rarely see him anymore so since he was being imature, and is still Berlakon that way, that just means he's not ready for a relationship, doesn't like me, atau isn't the one for me and I'm fine with that now.
hottie23 posted hampir setahun yang lalu
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