HELP! i need Nasihat ok i know me and my boyfriend Cinta each other but i always text him first. and sometimes i wait to see if he'll text me first but he doesn't. do u guys think i'm making a big deal outta the situation I WANT HIM TO DO IT 1ST

Trust me, ive gone through this b4..... tell him that u hate i when u always have to txt people 1st, giving him some hints & if he doesnt get ur message dont txt him 4 a while & if he doesnt txt b like y didnt u txt me? (nicely) atau say sorry i 4got to txt u.i didnt have my fone. atau dont 4get 2 txt me!!! u know remind him that u shouldnt have 2 txt him. he might b busy and 4get i do that all the time!!!

Don't have a big experience with texting. But why don't anda try telling him to text anda sometimes? If anda don't want to just flat out say it then maybe anda could just give a few hints.

anda could say "Hey, text me later." atau something along those lines.

I really hope I managed to help you:)

Okay...um...yeah I think it's a problem. But it's even bigger of a problem when it comes to calling each other. I'll tell anda why, lol. It's because in a relationship, the man should lead. Like, he should call first, text first, take anda on most of the dates, pay for the dates, and so on. And, him not texting anda first shows that he's not looking to lead, and to be the "hunter". He's looking for you to do that instead, and that's not good. Unless anda want to be in charge of the relationship yourself, then this is not good that he texts anda first.

So, talk to him about this. Communication is key in any relationship. Tell him that anda would like for him to text anda first sometimes. If he has no problem with that, then you're good. But if he does, then it's not good. Then anda decide what to do from there, girl. Or, let's say he says that he will text anda first from now on, and he never does, talk to him about it again, and honestly it's also your decision what to do from there too. :) Just make sure that anda know what anda want from a relationship, and that he has those quailties. :]

I hoped this helped anda somehow! :)