I’ve received a lot of messages about troubles with love, the gender one identifies as…
Things such as, “I hate myself as a girl” and “is it wrong to fall in Cinta with someone of the same gender” …
I have a feeling that I’ve talked about this before, but first of all, I want to say that I don’t have that sort of prejudice at all. I guess anda could say that I feel the same way anda do. There’s nothing wrong with falling in Cinta with someone.
It’s sad that there are people who look upon this issue with a prejudiced view atau a hateful view, just as there’s also a lot of people who judge others based on their appearance, but I think that there’s nothing that can be done about it.
They say “I understand” with their mouths, but they don’t really mean it. So, anda end up feeling isolated sejak different things around you.
Then, there’s the people who want to become men, but their parents don’t understand and refuse to accept it.
“You were born as a woman.” is a really irrational thing to say, isn’t it.
It’s depressing that they don’t understand your nature, your hati, tengah-tengah and body…
It’s not your fault.
There’s no reason to blame yourself. It’s no one else’s fault, either.
Despite that, I think that it’s especially difficult to have this sort of conflict with your parents…
I believe that someday, they’ll surely accept anda for who anda are, so don’t change.
anda should pay no attention to those around anda and take pride in who anda are. But if anda let yourself be affected sejak what they say, then that pain is already waiting within the depths of your heart. Still, there’s no need whatsoever to be humble.
Even if anda get all of those feelings out of anda that are so painful it’s hard to breathe, it won’t go well.
The pain of rejection, the fact that anda can’t come to Cinta yourself for who anda are, and the feeling of hurting yourself… I understand completely.
Nevertheless, there’s no need for anda to hurt yourself.
Because we’re all human, we have good points and bad points, so it’s only natural, but anda can’t change for anyone because anda only have this one existence.
Today, there was an incident at an unexpected place where I felt the kindness of people.
Although I have nothing but a cold image of strangers, feeling that kindness at an unexpected time warmed my heart.
It’ll be okay… we can get through this together.