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LifeAsC said:
I'm actually in the same situation, and it really hurts, I get it. My crush is annoyed sejak me too, and the biggest mistake anda could make is pushing those bounderies. The Nasihat "there are other ikan in the sea" irritates me - because how can a person like anda if the both of anda haven't even gotten to know each other? So, here's my whole hearted advice:
Give him space. Let him know that anda are your own person and that he isn't a huge significance involved in your life. Don't bother to let him drag anda down, that'll just cause him to be even lebih annoyed, and anda to be even lebih obsessed with the idea of the two of anda together. However, whenever he sees you, make eye contact. Short but not too short, keep the contact for about 2-3 saat and look away with a small smile (that's pretty much a telah diberi though). He'll know that you're interested, but just don't harass him with it. If being "annoying" is a trait of yours, embrace it. It's a flaw that many people have and struggle with, but if your crush actually gets to know you, and sees your good qualities, he may start to actually like you...and sejak that time he'll accept anda for who anda are. But if he finally gets to know you, and still doesn't like anda for who anda are, he's not worth anymore of your time. (That's and IF though)
General advice: just get to know him, let a bit of time pass to clear the tension between the two of you. However, keep sending signals that you're still interested, for example eye contact. (Also, think before anda act upon your words when anda speak to him.)
I really hope it works out, but if not, just remember that the situation is what anda make of it. alih on, improve yourself and live to your potential as a valued human being. Don't let one "crush" hurt you, turn it into a lesson and know that one hari there will be someone willing to Cinta you, flaws and all.
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