Outlander season 3: The 19 most heartbreaking moments of 'Surrender'... in GIFs 

Every unforgettable moment, every gorgeous dress.

‘s second installment of season 3 and it was far from a braw old time for our favorite Highlander and his English rose. If you made it through Sunday’s “Surrender” without greetin’, you’re made of stronger stuff than me.

There were trying times aplenty for Jamie (Sam Heughan) and Claire (Caitriona Balfe) on both sides of the Atlantic and time-traveling stones. In case you feel the compulsion to really drive home just how dire the situation is for the century-crossed lovers, here are 19 moments —in GIF form, of course — that really ripped our hearts out and stomped on ’em.

1. When Jenny told Jamie she could lie to the Red Coats about having not seen him in years because she really felt like she hadn’t…

2. When Claire was sleeping and imagining Jamie was there in her room with her…

4. When there was no hot water for Frank’s shower. KIDDING. NOBODY CARES, FRANK… (OK, fine, one person does.)

5. When Frank called himself Brianna’s father and Claire had to pretend like it didn’t feel like a Sgian-dubh to the heart…

6. When Jamie realized that now that the rebellion is over, he has to do boring tasks like reviewing the ledgers…

7. When Jenny tried to encourage Jamie to remarry and have kids, and he told her he would never love again…

8. When Jamie had to watch helplessly as the English punished Fergus and chopped off his hand…

9. When Fergus joked that with one stroke, he had become a man of leisure (and Jamie almost smiled)…

10. When Frank told Claire that he knows she’s thinking of Jamie when she’s intimate with him…

11. When Jamie realized he’d forgotten how to kiss…

12. And then a single tear rolled down his cheek as he tried to take comfort in Mary…

13. When Claire realized her professor at medical school was both sexist and racist in one fell swoop…

14. When poor old Frank was relegated to separate-bed status…

15. When Jamie faked his return home in order to allow the British soldiers to take him prisoner…

16. And Jenny had to pretend to turn him over to the British in order to save the rest of the family…

17. When Jamie looked at his sister for the last (?) time…

18. When Claire came across a bagpiper in Boston and was reminded of her time in Scotland with Jamie and the rest of the Highlanders…

19. OK, this one of a fantasy smile from Jamie didn’t break the heart so much as warm it up nice and toasty. You’re welcome.

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