Yes, and I don't think anda can understand how it feels until it happens to you. I always thought I understood, then it happened to me and it was 10 times worse. People can be so horrible, it makes me want to cry. Luckily I've never been physically abused sejak bullies, but sitting in a classroom with a group of bitches talking about anda right in front of your face is bad enough. I've had things thrown at me, I've been laughed at too many times to remember. You've always got to remember to think positively though, you've got to try not to care, you've got to not let them get to you. Because you're richer inside than they'll ever be, and anda must believe that. Always.
actually I bully people who are bullies (i know they are 'cause they are bullying someone at that moment) and if they're my age(so around 16). does that make me as low as actual bullies?
for as long as I remember I've dealt with bullying, mostly because of my autism. I've had rock, pinecones, pencils, pens, and sticks thrown at me, I've been poked in the back of the head and the shoulder and I have to deal with a lot of staring from other people. It's like they expect me to throw a major tantrum like I used to but I haven't thrown one since I was eleven and sejak then I was finally starting to get help and learning to finally act like a normal kid. I just wish those kids could see that already. I have serious trust issues because all of my old "friends" were only with me because they wanted something from me atau because they felt sorry for me. Pathetically enough, whenever I see the people who were so cruel to me atau still are, I either stare at the floor and shy away from them atau I hurry to a private place to cry. The bullying only stopped when I made a poem about "my curse" in my contemporary issues class for a project, especially when I almost started crying while Membaca it because it's so depressing
I know, I'm totally pathetic
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I have autism as well, and let me tell you, i've gone through so much trauma from bullying, that i'll break someone's limb if i'm angered enough. I really know how anda feel...
Yes and it is a very serious subject. If anda telah diposkan this soalan to be mean/sarcastic, that's sad; actually, it makes me wonder if anda were the bully. ??? Anywho, anda should really take stuff seriously before anda post thoughtless/careless questions. :(
I don't want to admit it...but I think I was a bully( sometimes, not always ) myself! * now I want to hear your angry komen-komen like How could anda and et cetera" Come on, I was like 13 I was not thinking that my komen-komen about someone's appearance would hurt their feelings
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im not going to judge anda for your past. however, i dont think anda can make exceptions about your age. The people that bully me are 13, and they know what they're doing alright. I'm not going against you, I'm glad anda can notice it and can look back on your actions and have stopped. I'm just saying that I do think that 13 is old enough to know the right way and the wrong way, I'm 13 myself. And just for the record, I'm not saying I'm perfect, I've made mistakes. But I do think that most 13 tahun old bullies can see what they're doing.
I've been bullied since I was.... let's see..... three.... and I'm still bullied. Although, I've become lebih of a bully this tahun because of the treatment I've gotten over the years. I've even earned the nickname "Karma" because apparently I reward those who do good towards others and punish those who hurt others. I'm actually going to counseling to work out my mental issues and hopefully I become a nicer person towards others.
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That's great! :) Instead of calling anda karma, I'd refer to anda as "The Punisher" LOL
yeah i was bullied a lot i got bullied to the point that i Lost the trust in people and so i became shy and antisocial i even hurt myself a lot got some scars on my arm but now i still get bullied sometimes but now i do not cut myself anymore now i just ignore theme and continue with life.
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did anda say you're too nice to be bullied? that's the reason i AM bullied, because I'm nice, and I'm not a bully. I get bullied because I stuck up for a victim of bullying. its ridiculous.
i thought the soalan berkata that if anda ever was a bully but now i looked at the soalan again and it berkata if anda ever got bullied so that my new answer
No, but sometimes annoyed but I fight back if I get bullied and even when I see someone get bullied I try to help and never let a bully get away with it so FUCK OFF bullies XD
that's pretty sad, anda should think of what anda could be doing to them, anda don't know what living conditions they're in atau anything...take note of it.
Here is a quote sejak someone on my fanlist on facebook. "The Girl anda just called fat? She has been starving herself & has Lost over 30lbs. The Boy anda just called stupid? He has a learning disability & studies over 4hrs a night. The Girl anda just called ugly? She spends hours putting makeup on hoping people will like her.The Boy anda just tripped? He is abused enough at home. There's a lot lebih to people than anda think...."
^that quote makes me cry. Jacobblackswife, just remember, what goes around comes around. true story.there's lebih to life that Jacob Black. Maybe anda could make someone smile for a change, its a lot lebih rewarding. and the fact that anda realize what you're doing, well, think seterusnya time. think how you'd feel in that position. its not funny, its heart-breaking.
Tamar 20 stfu i dont appreciate your sarcasm. did i say i was proud? no. did i put an ecessive amount of exclamation marks of even a smile at the end? no.
I have been bullied for being unlike everyone else, I have been bullied for liking cars rather than sports, for having only one friend, for having asperger's syndrome, for liking Japanese culture, and many other things. I have bullied for people being idiots in my class and constantly disrupting it.
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Those sound like very piss-poor reasons to bully someone. I gues they find whatever they can get to make someone elses life hell. It's ridiculous.
Yes, but not sejak a peer, no. I've been bullied sejak teachers on several occasions. No one should have to go through being bullied. I wouldn't wish it on my worst enemy. It makes anda feel like absolute shit. If someone figures that there is even a slight possibility that they can walk all over anda and get away with it, they will, and with every effort to make themselves feel good and superior, to the point that it makes anda feel worthless. Not a pretty place to be.
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i hate that hun, it sucks i know..but i've never been bullied sejak teachers, that's a new one. :( i'm sorry.:(
Yes I have been bullied, I've lived with it almost every hari for the past 6 atau so years. My step-dad is one of my biggest bullies. He finds ways of hurting me every chance he gets to, it pisses me off so much. Another thing is the bitches i go to school with, either with their damn drama, atau what they still find time to pick on someone 'lower' then them. It's so stupid!
Yes, all my life. sejak other kids, people i pass on the street, sejak people I've never even seen before. That's what happens when your born with a very conspicuous disfigurement on your face and the doctors refuse to remove it early on. But there's nothing i can do about it now. I've always been bullied and I'll continue to be bullied for the rest of my life, I've had years to except that.
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That's horrible! :O People need to learn that beauty is only skin deep -_-
They never will. Even my family are repulsed sejak my appearence (i can see it in their faces) That's how the world works. if your ugly, anda might as well kill yourself yo avoid future pain.
Most probably a simple stranger feeling sorry for anda won't make anda feel better , but this really made me sad , how mean and judgemental people can be , I am sorry for you.
Thank anda for being concious of what effect your words may have. Your words won't turn my life around, but it still made me feel a fraction better, and for that anda have my gratitiude.
Yes,I was bullied in high school sejak some d*ckhead who thought it'd be cool to tunjuk off to his friends.It only happened for a short while because my parents got it sorted out,but while it was happening,it made my life hell :(
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thank god your parents intervened. Most of them never do.
People shouldn't suffer in silence :( It was only because my grandma found me crying that she found out,and I'm glad she did,that put him in his place :)
Yes, to the point where I was trying to kill myself in the 2nd grade. I have been bullied my entire life. I have all kinds of emotional and mental issues (that may atau may not have been there before, but I'll never know) now. No one deserves to be put through the kind of pain I was put through. I'm glad you've never been bullied though.
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I am so teribbly sorry that you've been put through such pointless suffering. There is probably nothing i can say to anda that can help, because i'd be lying if i berkata everything will be all right eventually.
Yeah, I learned that, but I also know that those kids will end up working minimum wage jobs when I'm earning 120,000 dollars a tahun with my money from my novels so it's all good. My issues also help a lot with creativity, if anda know what I mean.
That is the key way to look at it :) People who bully only have insecurities about themselves so when anda have a nice house with a fantastic career and lots of money,you'll have the last laugh ;)
When I was in kindergarten some grils scratched my hands , there were some ugly marks. But if I would see them today I would most probably beat them up LOL ...they were kind of snobs.
Yes I have been for years but not hardely anymore since I'm in high school. I've gotten tripped, had pencils thrown at me, pine cones, paper, erasers, and several other things. It was worse but now I only get bullied a few times a month.
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