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I need some help making a decision that could change my life... CAN ANYONE HELP????

Ok so I am 15 years old and am going to be starting 11th grade in August but the thing that I don't know now is what school I will go to. So my soalan is what school I should go to seterusnya year? I'll give anda some background on the pros and cons of each school. The school I'm at now is great there are lots of things that I like about it that is way I chose it in the first place. Plus I have all my Friends there. For me this tahun has been really tough. I had to deal with a lot of loss this tahun and I got rather depressed. I am the kind of person who is really closed off and do not express my feelings and I rarely share how I am feeling. So when I went through everything that I did this tahun I realized how close I really was to all my Friends because they made the last few months so much easier for me. So then the other school is also a really great school and when I really think about it I think that in the long run moving to that school will give me a better shot for my future. Yet I don't have any Friends there so it may make it difficult for me. So basically when I think about staying I think that I really want to go through all the high school stuff with my Friends like prom and graduation, but at the same time I think the other school will be better for my future. When I talk to my Friends about this they just tell me to stay because they want me to stay at the same school as them which just makes things really confusing for me.

So I know that there is a lot of information but I just want to get an idea of what other people think. I need another perspective that is not bias to one side. So if anda could just leave your thoughts about what anda think I should do if anda need lebih information about the situation just let me know and I'll give it to you.
THANK anda VERY MUCH I REALLY NEED THE HELP :)

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ok so for all of anda who answered thank anda anda did help me so it is not 100% but it looks like i will be staying at my school. I just wanted to say thank anda to alll of anda who answered and for those of anda who I did not take your suggestion the Nasihat was really appricated because everything that anda guys berkata helped me make a decision. So once again thank you. :)
s3l3nA93 posted hampir setahun yang lalu
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Mela1994 said:
I honestly think that anda should decide what anda think is best for anda and what anda want to do, if anda want to stay then stay. If anda wanna go then go. It's your choice and your life. Do what anda feel to do! It's the best i can say and it's the best for your self to do.
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padme768 said:
i think anda should stay to the school with your friends.
the other school may be better, but being alone is rough-trust me i know- and it would make anda not pay attention to any classes.
anda will be depressed and wont have any interest at school.
so stick with your Friends to the end, anda will be much happier, and that's what's important =)
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shaza1101 said:
I agree with Padme,

in my school (like all others)everyone splits into their own little groups and just sticks in them. and when 4th yr came and exams were over everyone i was gd Friends with left to go to college atau interships etc, leaving me on my own. and after 4 yrs it was hard to just sertai another group no one accepted you, i was on my own for the last 2 yrs and it wasnt exactly fun - i wouldnt recommend it
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Irina92 said:
well if u really Cinta your Friends and stuff u should stay in your old school. but if sometimes u feel oppressed sejak them u should change and make a new start... u know it depends on how u feel bout it and i think not so much bout how nice the school is...lots need change and new beginning while others r happy with wat they have...that's my opinion even though it's not that clear!
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PrettyCure55 said:
Well.......you're the one who has to choose. Speaking friend-wise, anda should think if anda want to make new ones atau not. anda have to think for your self, we don't know what anda want to do atau if anda think it is the best choice.
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BellaCullen96 said:
I can just imagine what anda are going through. I have moved multiple times, and I'm only 12! I really miss all my Friends from my old schools. I can think of two options anda might like.

The first is going to the new school. anda could stay in touch with your Friends if it isn't that far away, and make a bunch of new friends. If anda don't have a boyfriend, it could also be a good chance to meet new guys, anda know, start off fresh.

The other option is staying at your present school with all of your friends. anda could study hard so anda can get into a good college. From that college anda can work hard to get the future anda would have gotten from the other school. I personally like this idea better.

I hope this helps anda out some!
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The-Stig said:
I think that if anda genuinely think that the other school will be better for anda in the long run then anda should go for it. Hopefully you'll be able to make new Friends there and it's important to stay in contact with your old Friends as well. Your future is very important, so anda shouldn't let other people hold anda back. Your Friends sound great so Im sure they'll understand whatever anda choose. So i think make sure to stay close with them but go ahead and alih to the other if it will be better for you. besides, if worse comes to the worst anda can always alih back to the school ur at now.
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angiii7 said:
School with your friends! I say it cause it lived that and I picked the other school and now I'm not unhappy but I missed my Friends every single hari ...
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