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Am I too young to get married?

I'm getting married in December, and I turned 18 on May 27th. My boyfriend is 18, too. One of his best Friends and 2 of my bffs berkata that we were too young. Would anda agree?
 kakalover posted hampir setahun yang lalu
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EmzLovesCheryl said:
18 is an acceptable and legal age to get married, yes.

But your Friends are just worried that you're making a wrong move.
In some countries women get married at very young ages, but here where I am in England, most people leave it till later on.
Sometimes it's not a wise decision to get married so early. anda and your partner may not know eachother as well as anda think anda do, depending on how long you've been together. But as far as I'm concerned, as long as you've both thought this through properly, you've taken into account your parents/guardians' opinions, and are certain that it's what anda want, then I'm sure there's no problem. But anda must feel ready. anda don't want to grow up too quickly and regret it.

But if you're both mature about this and certain, then I'm happy for you. :)


sejak the way, how long have anda known him?

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posted hampir setahun yang lalu 
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I always Cinta how anda answer with the long, yet informative little speech :D I agree :)
rapunzeleah123 posted hampir setahun yang lalu
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Hehe, I can't seem to help it. :) Thanks!
EmzLovesCheryl posted hampir setahun yang lalu
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@kakalover, it all depends really on how anda feel. you're obvously uncertain, right? otherwise anda wouldn't be asking this question. what's the rush? anda have years to go of anda being happily together without the stress of being married. And if it's not what anda want, then don't be shy to call the wedding off, if he loves anda he'll understand. i'm not going to tell anda what anda should do, because it's up to anda to decide. Listen to the voice deep inside your heart. Does it think you're ready? 5 months is a short time. Go with what anda want, not what anda think anda should do.
EmzLovesCheryl posted hampir setahun yang lalu
Schnusch said:
I don't think 5 months being together are enough time. anda should live together first to know if he's right for anda and if anda get along when anda see each other everyday and have to manage a household together. Cause that's always a whole lot different than visiting each other. My fiancé and I lived in my mother's apartment sharing a small room for one tahun and then moved into our own flat. We faced a lot of difficulties that others only face after years of marriage and we stayed a couple. So we knew it's no mistake to marry cause even those rough times couldn't separate us. anda never know if the marriage lasts but if anda have faith in it and there's no doubts for anda then anda should marry. But you're asking this soalan so anda obviously have doubts. And is that a good start for a marriage? I don't think so.

anda shouldn't buy a dress before anda know it's the perfect size. It's no guarantee that it will fit anda for a lifetime. But at least while it fits it makes anda happy and not feel like anda made a mistake buying it =)
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posted hampir setahun yang lalu 
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agreed.
EmzLovesCheryl posted hampir setahun yang lalu
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My parents got married after 3 months and this tahun they will have 19 years of marriage.
Drisina posted hampir setahun yang lalu
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I didn't say there was no exceptions ;) I just wouldn't do it.
Schnusch posted hampir setahun yang lalu
Ale1152 said:
It may not be wise to get married at a young, but I think 18 would be acceptable.
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posted hampir setahun yang lalu 
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Ok. Thanks!
kakalover posted hampir setahun yang lalu
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Your Welcome ^^
Ale1152 posted hampir setahun yang lalu
Insane4ever said:
Those marriegess rarely last.....so good luck
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Thanks.
kakalover posted hampir setahun yang lalu
bluesweets said:
I think it is, anda haven't lived your life yet, but whatever, our opinions don't really matter.
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posted hampir setahun yang lalu 
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anda really thinks so?
kakalover posted hampir setahun yang lalu
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Yeah and as berkata above, those marriages rarely last. I think it also depends on how long anda have been going out.
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rapunzeleah123 said:
That is quite young... but I'm going to pray for your marriage to keep holding on. It's probably been stated before, but young marriages don't really last. (Excepting Edward and Bella's XD)
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Thanks!
kakalover posted hampir setahun yang lalu
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No prob :)
rapunzeleah123 posted hampir setahun yang lalu
Tamar20 said:
Well my sister got married in the age of 18 and then she got divorced in two months!
Hmm I'm not trying to let anda down atau anything but marriage is a huge responsibility. But if you're in Cinta and feel like it's the right thing go for it.
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posted hampir setahun yang lalu 
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Ok.
kakalover posted hampir setahun yang lalu
nciszivarox said:
I think that if anda guys are sure anda Cinta each other and want to be together for the rest of your life Cinta has no age limit.So I say its yours and your fiancee's opinion that matters lebih than theirs. Good luck I hope anda have a great marriage
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KK.
kakalover posted hampir setahun yang lalu
zanesaaomgfan said:
No...

My ex-friend's sister got married at 17 since the wedding was on her birthday....

atau was that her mom...?

Anyway, I asked my mom a few days lalu why she thinks Zanessa is too young to think about marriage and she berkata because there might be other people out there that they would fall for.

Your and his Friends are probably thinking that... How long have anda been dating? (Please don't say a week!)
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posted hampir setahun yang lalu 
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Wow, that's pretty good. I'd say go for it!
zanesaaomgfan posted hampir setahun yang lalu
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Thanks!!
kakalover posted hampir setahun yang lalu
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^ But she kinda grew up with him, anda know?
zanesaaomgfan posted hampir setahun yang lalu
Chaann94 said:
Sure it's legal.
But anda better wait 'till anda both are all grown up. See the brain is done growing when ur about 24/25. THEN you're a grown-up! If anda get married after that you're less likely to grow apart.
So it's lebih for your own sake. But of course I don't know anda and your relationship so...
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Drisina said:
There is no too young/old age to get married.
anda do it when anda feel ready and anda found the person anda want to spent the rest of your life with , but in the same time to be sure she/he wants the same thing.
"Use your head and follow your heart."
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StarGirl1721 said:
well your young and your not
if anda think anda can handle the responsibilities then your OK to go with it but
if anda think anda can't well then its up to...but remember its always your disunion to make ;)
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Niceness said:
Do what your hati, tengah-tengah and mind is telling you.
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shadowcharmer said:
pretty much -_-
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 pretty much -_-
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