Was he serious? B/c if he was I think that falls under the catagory of polygamy, so now anda must make a choice. Do anda A. Go along for the ride atau B. throw him out. This is really up to anda so if he was infact serious then he at least had the sense to tell anda instead of hiding it and making it hurt lebih later. So if polygamy is his thing anda have to respect that and either alih on *if anda do not approve* atau take the oppurtunity to share a guy...