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Why do girls have such low opinions of guys?

I mean honestly, why? I hear it from everywhere, how stupid and rude all boys are. Why do girls always think that? It's not like we're any worse atau better than anda anyway...
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ArcticWolf said:
Because thanks to T.V. shows, movies, and several unfortunate encounters in real life, we have inaccurate opinions on anda guys. We're being told that all a guy likes about her is her physical appearance (which is why a lot of us are insecure about what we look like), and if he acts like he likes you, he expects anda to have sex with him. We're always being warned, "Don't believe when your boyfriend tells anda he loves you, he obviously has an ulterior motive!" It's disgusting, really, and it sucks. But with so many abusive relationships going on with teens, girls are being warned about this kind of thing, and we unfortunately come to our own biased conclusions based on unfortunate incidents dealing with other couples. I'm not saying it's not our fault, I'm saying it's how we were raised in this society. It really sucks.
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posted hampir setahun yang lalu 
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Well at least anda have a rational reason for saying it. And it's true. But I do wonder how these sorts of things start up anyway...
thespikedturtle posted hampir setahun yang lalu
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I have no idea how it started...
ArcticWolf posted hampir setahun yang lalu
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^i think it's when a girl has a talk with another girl about this it's because of thier experience wiht thier ex's
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BabyBlud said:
I can't say for other girls as each girl is different and unique, but for me i'm not aware if i have spoken harshly about boys atau not.

In my own past experiences with boys (which haven't been that great) they deserve everything they get. However i am now in a happy relationship, yes he has his little annoying problems that grate at me, but i'm sure i have annoying problems that grate on him as well.
i suppose most girls are able to express how they're feeling lebih then guys are able to. Also i believe girls are lebih vocal about their problems and are able to sympathise lebih without seeming 'soft' atau 'gay' as boys are mostly stereotyped as for menunjukkan once ounce of emotion atau empathy.
I agree boys are no worse atau better then girls..i suppose that underneath every nice and sweet innocent girl..is a complete and utter hard core jalang, perempuan jalang XD
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All of that stuff is true, except for that last part. Behind every harsh person is a soft inside I believe, whether guy atau girl, jerk atau not. But then why do girls dis guys because of that.
thespikedturtle posted hampir setahun yang lalu
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Girls are literal minded mostly. Instead of bottling things up they like to get their frustrations out, share their concerns and get Nasihat atau sympathy to 'feel' better. What better way to release the frustration then complain about the problem in the first place? True, many men may not see what they did/say etc as a problem, but girls (especially at a certain age) can be very angsty over how people should act, without adding themself in the mix. Also many girls have dreamed about their 'dream boy' since being a little girl wishing they were princess Cinderella etc. They think every man should be like prince charming then reality hits them in the face and they are disappointed. irrational and reidiculous i know, but that's how we feel. Until we can find that prince charming that can do no wrong, we resort to 'tweaking' atau trying to, the man we are with to turn him into the prince charming.
BabyBlud posted hampir setahun yang lalu
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Then guys would also be looking for their Cinderella, a perfect girl who never gets upset with anything. I know most girls want to find that prince, but there is a prince for every girl out there, so why bother stereotyping? I guess it's only some girls that do it though, I just seem to see a whole lot of it...
thespikedturtle posted hampir setahun yang lalu
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I can undersrand thatm unfortunately the whole world is stereotyped into labels and groups etc. We're all a part of it and it gets drummed into us from a very young age. Unfortunately children are led to believe life can be perfect and be seen as though Filem are real, i don't know whether that's a good atau bad thing at the moment, but continuing to think like that into adult life is unhealthy in my opinion, and unfortunately there are people like that, thinking they are god's gift the 'princess atau prince'' so to speak, and everyone should go arouond them instead of realising they are not the centre of the universe and they can also do wrong.
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AWarnerS said:
I know exactly what ur talking about man. I'm a guy, and I see tons of girls here talk shit about the guys. That's why I'm thinking about leaving this spot. We don't have anything against them do we?
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No, we really don't. Maybe we should just make a guys-only spot...
thespikedturtle posted hampir setahun yang lalu
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I know right?
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Yeah, girls infiltrated that one anyway...
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Shadowmarioking said:
I guess we've just learned to think that as the stereotype for guys when in reality most are very nice, but misunderstood gravely.
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Then how come I never hear guys saying anything bad about girls?
thespikedturtle posted hampir setahun yang lalu
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Oh, trust me, I've heard a lotta guys talk shit about girls. I guess it's just in my state?
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^I suppose so.
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frankie_fan said:
I'm a girl and I personally hate girls that act like that. They think all guys are jerks and everything but they're not.
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Thanks for understanding :)
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beepboop said:
I know right! Its stupid!Girls that do that are just girly-girls!

Tomboys have respect for them and like them :D
Im a tomboy and I have a bf :)
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I know right! Its stupid!Girls that do that are just girly-girls! Tomboys have respect for them and like them :D Im a tomboy and I have a bf :)
posted hampir setahun yang lalu 
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But I've even met tomboys that say that kind of stuff. Almost all girls do...
thespikedturtle posted hampir setahun yang lalu
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um...ok girly girl are not the only ones who say that stuff.
ColieAnne91 posted hampir setahun yang lalu
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i'm a tom boy
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JohnnieCade said:
Most of them may have been through a tuff time with some guys, so then they generalize all guys, saying they're all the same. I don't like those girls at all, they annoy the hell outta me. I've been through a lotta betrayals from guys, but I wouldn't say all guys are like that nor would I say shit about anda guys.
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Thanks. I mean, girls do the exact same types of things as we do, that doesn't make either gender horrible though...
thespikedturtle posted hampir setahun yang lalu
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Exactly.
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TOTALIzzyluver said:
(I am girl FYI) I think some girls feel that when it comes to guys they have to be in control because they think girls are smarter then guys which according to America is true but I don't think it is. They just want guy attention so don't let it bother you. I have guy Friends and when I'm with them its like is doesn't even matter. But don't get all up in their bid-ness cuz their going feminism will cut anda in half like a ritcous blade of equality.
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I understand what anda mean, but it's annoying when I hear stuff like this absolutely everywhere...
thespikedturtle posted hampir setahun yang lalu
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Ehh the world ain't perfect :p
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Bananaaddict said:
Well...let's just say most every guy I know is a complete ass. XD

However, I try not to stereotype too much. I know a some guys who are funny, kind and polite, and there are also guys on here that I enjoy talking to. It's just...yeah. Whenever I try to give a guy a chance, he ignores me, looks down on me, atau is just plain annoying. :/
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I'm glad anda don't stereotype.
BlindBandit92 posted hampir setahun yang lalu
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Then honestly, anda just don't know the right guys! :P And how do anda think us guys feel? Girls do the exact same thing.
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I did. Thank anda for clearing that up.
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demon_wolf said:
Not all girls think like that. I don't. The girls that do think like that annoy me. I hate girls like that.

My boyfriend is pretty fricken awesome.
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Well I'm glad anda don't then! :)
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Me_Iz_Here said:
I just do it to poke fun at them. My friend says it's because we watch too much TV and the guys on the shows raise our expectations too high xD. But I honestly don't know. Maybe because they're always making fun of us. I'm not saying all, but a lot. And it irritates us.
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The only reason a guy would make fun of a girl is if he actually cared about her. Guys typically make fun of other guys.
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springely said:
I know right? I agree with you, bro. A lot of people here think I'm a perverted, creeper, atau a sex obsessed atau whatever just because of my gender.

I hate when they say all guys are perverts/stupid/jerks. Not all guys are bad, and not all girls are bad. Just because I'm a guy doesn't mean that all I want is sex, all I think about is sex, etc. There's not even many guys that are like that.

It's mostly just the people on this site though, it's not really anywhere else. Some of the people on this site talk about guys like that. Not all of them, but it's some of the people on this site, specifically this spot. And what really annoys me is if someone just gets in a relationship with ONE person, and it turns out bad, they assume all people of that gender are like that.

We're all equal.
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Ditto
AWarnerS posted hampir setahun yang lalu
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Agreed
BlindBandit92 posted hampir setahun yang lalu
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We are all equal. I guess it's just the shallow people that stereotype at all then.
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iluvsmj said:
idk.
i think its because some girls think guys are Anjing and stuff and only want one thing.
not saying its true..idk if is, i havent had a bf yet so i don't know what to think of guys.
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Yeah, I get how anda see it that way. Probably true too.
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BlindBandit92 said:
I know exactly what you're talking about. It gets VERY annoying over a time. But I've noticed not every girl does that. I can't stand the girls that needlessly generalize guys like that.
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Not every girl does that, no.
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xxXsk8trXxx said:
Men have mistreated women in the past (and some still do today), selling them for sex and not giving them jobs and such. Things have changed, but some women think that all men haven't changed and are still the big misogynists they used to be. It's just like men thinking that women belong in the dapur and are sex toys. Why can't all genders just be equal for once?!
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Agreed.
BlindBandit92 posted hampir setahun yang lalu
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yeah
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I Agree!100%finally someone who has the same opinion as me too!
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jazzscarb said:
im a girl and i dont do that i judge boys on how they treat me as a person and a girl if they want to be mean about this then no i dont want a guy like that.
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But anda just judge individual guys, which is okay.
thespikedturtle posted hampir setahun yang lalu
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yeah
jazzscarb posted hampir setahun yang lalu
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Pretty good answer.
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050801090907 said:
I understand everyone!I have learned that there are some rude guys but also some know to be very kind and sweet!You are right what are girls better than guys!I know some really mean girls even i am scared of them but some are the most wonderful girls in the world!So I don't have uch opinions for every guys only for some few from my school!
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*Such
050801090907 posted hampir setahun yang lalu
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I just never really got the difference there... Oh well.
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Thecharliejay said:
Easy answer a quater of u guys are jerks who only want sex.The quater of anda use girls and if they get pregnant anda dont help them. anda don't care about girls feelings. But the reason girls have a bad opinion is cause the one bad one overshadows the amazing and lovely ones.And in many media things guys are made bad, but to be honest and fair the same amount there are the same amount of male jerks as there are female. There are no shortage of bitches and dickheads out there from either sex!
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well that's true but not all guys!
050801090907 posted hampir setahun yang lalu
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That's true, some guys are like that. But not all of them. Some guys actually care about girls, and if they would just take the time to appreciate that, then it wouldn't be a problem. There are as many female jerks as there are male, but there are also as many nice guys as there are nice girls.
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Alright, now you're just confusing me... I think there's a lot of jerks out there too, but I don't really even care what gender they are. If they jerks, then why bother?
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dannylynn92 said:
because ive never met one guy who hasn't let me down
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Keep looking there are plenty of great guys out there :D
Thecharliejay posted hampir setahun yang lalu
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i dident mean boyfriend wise i met in genreal
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There's always Rick Astley.
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