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help!! i dont know what i should do

ok so i have depression and my mom knows that, and i even started to cut. my mom freaked out when she found out but even tho she knows i have cut(she told me to stop). she still doesnt get it. she keep asking if i was worried. she wont listen. i dont cut because im worried. i do it because my hati, tengah-tengah hurts and it makes my hati, tengah-tengah stop hurting if i cut. it has just gotten worse, my hati, tengah-tengah cuts even worse then it ever did. i just want to keep smiling so my Friends dont know that something is wrong but it hurts to smile....what should i do
 starfirey232 posted hampir setahun yang lalu
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ladyshela said:
Have anda considered talking to a professional? anda should relay your feelings to someone who is trained to handle these kinds of things.
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like who? i dont have anyone and i reallty dont want to talk to my school. i hate my school. can anda tell me where i can talk to someone about it?
starfirey232 posted hampir setahun yang lalu
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Like someone in counseling. My mom was abused as a child and she takes medicine and goes to therpy. There's got to be a way anda can seek help through your guidance con.
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sexi_emo_girl said:
I dunno i cut myself to but of course my foster mother dosen't care! :( damn my life sucks! :(
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i sometimes think my mom doesnt care at all. one times i was upset and started crying and she berkata "yea just sit there and cry. feel sorry for yourself"
starfirey232 posted hampir setahun yang lalu
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That reminds me of my dad ;(
ladyshela posted hampir setahun yang lalu
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:(*
ladyshela posted hampir setahun yang lalu
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@starfirey232 well i dunno who my mom is and my foster mother says to me cut yourself i don't care! :(
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Shadowmarioking said:
Tell your mother how anda really feel. If anyone can help you, your mother can. She can help anda through this and get anda out of this rut that you're stuck in. As for your friends, tell them as well. If they truly are your friends, they're worth telling something as important as this.

The saat step would probably be figuring out a way to handle your depression. Counseling is always the best option, but anda have to consider if your depression is that bad that it requires counseling. Whichever way anda want to treat your depression, anda go for.
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thanks but if i try yo talk to my mom i get scared and never do. its just everyone in my family thinks of my as a little girl that is sweet and doesnt know anything dirty atau bad. atau atleast i feel like they do. i feel like i have to act like someone who isnt me.
starfirey232 posted hampir setahun yang lalu
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^That's probably because you're an introverted individual. Introverts act like their true selfs alone, but have a different personality (an extroverted self) when they're talking with other people, even family members. If anda want to fix your depression and get your life back on track, anda have to be strong and tell her the truth, no matter how scared. Human emotions are not meant to be bottled up in someone. If anda can't confess to someone, you'll get no better than anda are now.
Shadowmarioking posted hampir setahun yang lalu
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your right. i have bottled up alot and its coming back up later and i dont want this to come back 10 times worse like everything else that i have bottled up
starfirey232 posted hampir setahun yang lalu
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^My point exactly. If anda have to, anda can even talk to me about these issues. Believe me, I've had a minor depression period and I've struggled with being the bully and the bullied individual in my life, and nothing feels better than to confess to someone how.
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HaleyDewit said:
Stay away from sharp thing...
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*things.
HaleyDewit posted hampir setahun yang lalu
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i dont know if that will work
starfirey232 posted hampir setahun yang lalu
iPsychic said:
anda just need to tell your mum how anda feel. atau maybe even one of your closests Friends because I bet they'll always be there for you.

atau either; stop cutting yourself. I'm afraid that pain isn't the answer to you're problem.
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if i stop that will make it worse. trust me
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icuSTALKER said:
Yeah I've telah diberi myself a small poke with a pisau to try and draw some blood and I found it doesn't work.
First, put your pisau away. Don't look at it, even destroy it if anda have to.
Second, let it all out. Cry until anda have no lebih tears. You'll still feel broken but try to let it roll off in your sleep. Think of your burdens and your pain rolling off your shoulders. Try to feel it doing that and take a deep breath.
Third, go to someone anda really trust. anda don't have to talk to your mom if you're not ready. Let it all out in a private meeting and ask how anda should word your feelings to your mom.
When anda feel ready, talk to your mom. Of she still doesn't understand, let her be. Maybe she has something on her mind too. Ask her if there's anything bothering her. Say anda need comfort and you're wondering if anda can spend some time with her and see how it goes.
Depending on your mom's reactions, either back off from her atau continue on the road for anda to heal and try to talk to her more.
Don't look at the knife. Find the good in your mother. Think 'who will I miss if I'm sad atau feeling devastated?' It might help anda feel wanted and such.
Don't give up and keep pursuing. Do something anda really like to do.
:)
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1 and 2 wont work, 3, have talked to my best friend. and i Cinta my mom, i dont hate her atau anything, but she doesnt understand sometimes and it didnt work for anda to cut but it helps me. it will get worse if i dont
starfirey232 posted hampir setahun yang lalu
Jamie_Blue said:
I recommend talking to a professional. It really helps to be able to express what you're going through to someone. I have intrusive thoughts and I found that talking helped immensely.
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ok ill try it
starfirey232 posted hampir setahun yang lalu
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if i ever find a prifessional to talk to because im not going to talk to my school
starfirey232 posted hampir setahun yang lalu
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Yeah go for it. Don't be afraid to cry either, it's all a part of feeling better. I believe in you, go for it!
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ilovemichael17 said:
i have a friend who had the situation so try to distract yourself from your depression if that doesn't work then see a professional for help
hope anda get better:)
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