How do anda relieve shyness

I have the same problem,but I can give anda some suggestions.

1.breath deeply a couple times before talking to the person

2.Imagine the person as someone anda are comfortable talking to(like a sister,mom,or friend)

3.Make sure anda DONT get so nervous, anda end up Berlakon like your a crazy person.

4.Have lebih of a layed back attitude.

and the last part might not help about what your talking about,but I'm not sure

Best Nasihat is to let loose and allow your imperfections to shine through.

Often, we tend to hesitate and hold ourselves back because we fear that our efforts will not be perfect. We hate to allow others to think we are weak.

But anda are not weak sejak menunjukkan your flaws. Heck, anda are
stronger than most!

Allowing your flaws to be seen simply means that anda are asserting a belief in your strengths.

hope this helps :)

Shyness decreases over time as anda are lebih social and be lebih social around people. Face your fears and try to say something to people to decrease your shyness, it would eventually disappear as youget older. Also, try to smile lebih often, people will thinkyour confident and will likely talk to you. The lebih social anda are, the lebih your shyness will go away.
I
used to be very shy when I was 13. Have mostly gotten over it :)
This helped me a lot now I am crazy in public
1.Start sejak talking lebih to your family until anda aren't shy around them
2. then do that with friends
3. in small groups in public
that worked for me.
Help lot of deserving people. Try to help those who are depressed, suppressed and oppressed in life. Thus anda will gain over a period of time lot of experience and knowledge and finally one hari anda will be fully conversant and familiar.

i have no cule i have the seme problem

anda have to stand out and stop being afraid of being shy and speak up if anda want to be heard.

I have the same problem. I would really like to know how to get rid of it. It's the one thing in my life that is stopping me from getting what I want.

i have this issue to but i guess anda just need to get used to talking to this guy, um if anda have other people around anda lke your Friends maybe that will help coz when i liked this guy i found it easier when my bestie was near me i dunno.....good luck :D

i don't know if to call it self confidence atau apathy, but lately i've found myself a lot less shy than in sebelumnya situations, maybe it was because i took a break from school for a while idk....

i think the only way sometimes to get rid of your fears is to face them sorry :( i think cutiepie has some good points, anda should learn to accept yourself for anda anda are, stop short changing yourself, lol, it's a process and something that doesn't happen over night, im sorry but i don't know if anda will be able to get rid of your shyness fast enough to get with this boy (you might) if anda just hold your breath and have a go at it XD, that works for a lot of people

the first thing anda need to do is self acceptance acknowledge you're shy, and that's okay, lots of people are shy, maybe anda can even use that so your advantage in some weird way :P

and then anda go on accepting yourself and your flaws and maybe even pointing out some good stuff about yourself, until anda start to realize what a special and awesome person anda are

then step two, which anda can do while anda are doing step one is GO OUT! face your fears :) anda don't have to do anything drastic that anda think anda r not ready for, but just go out more, and then be around people more, open up to your friends, when anda open up to people anda start to realize the deep dark things that anda thought were so horrible about anda aren't really that bad

then, when anda are confident about who anda are as a person anda would be lebih confident that people will like that person :) thus making anda lebih confident about yourself so that anda can make that seterusnya move, even if your nerves still kill anda sometimes, lol

hey, at least this is my theory, but i'm a quack, my plans never work, so be careful if anda wanna listen to me :P