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best friend?

Alright, Last tahun was my first tahun of high school. I was really excited and nervous at the same time. As soon as high school started, almost everyone I knew changed completely, except for my bff. Most of the girls in my tahun would talk about boys, trying to make their skirts a little shorter and who should go out with who. My bff and I stayed the same. We would tell each other secrets, talk about the most Rawak things and always laughing together, just like we did in primary. Soon at the start of term 3 she started hanging out with this group of girls. They were nice and funny, but they would talk about the disgusting things (hope anda know what I mean!), try to be cool and talk behind peoples back. After that my bff left me and changed from an innocent girl who is always dressed perfectly and nice to everyone. Now a girl who wears heaps of make up and bugs people around her. I miss her and it hurts so much to lose someone that can make anda smile everyday! I have other good friends, but they aren't as close as she was. I sometimes feel really lonely without a Best friend, so during my free time I would study and focus on school work, and its slightly getting boring. What should I do? thank you...... :)









 prettyme16 posted hampir setahun yang lalu
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Lt_Kowalski said:
That is very common with teens. Very..

I am not a female, but the only thing I can say is that, as sad is as it is that anda Lost your best friend, anda will one hari find another best friend. Maybe anda might find her in college. And now that you've seen what anda ex best friend is really like, anda know now not to hopefully make the same mistake again.. And once anda are well into your late teens and early twenties, anda will HOPEFULLY have a good life and look back and laugh that off because anda will have much better friends. Let's hope they don't screw anda over but just hope that anda will know lebih on who to trust and what REALLY big decisions anda must make in your life. anda are still young. anda don't want to make any mistakes. anda want to have goals and not worry about the small things. If anda make goals now, accomplish them later, anda will be proud of yourself. anda will meet GOOD Friends along the way.. Trust me.

A good friend is one who stays with anda all the way through your life when the others have walked out..

I hope that helped. :)
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that is really touching! thanks it made me felt a bit better! :)
prettyme16 posted hampir setahun yang lalu
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Really good answer. The only thing I can add is don't try to force a new bff; anda will in time have another close friend. It's ok to feel the sense of loss right now. anda never know, she could also come back, and then it's up to anda if anda think the friendship is worth it.
jester616 posted hampir setahun yang lalu
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last sentence...so true :)
coriann posted hampir setahun yang lalu
coriann said:
i know what it's like to Cinta somebody and see their face everyday and know that they will never Cinta you, they will never talk to anda again and experience the hurt they put anda though in your mind over and over again like a CD

she's changed, people change when they get older, maybe she just wants to be a teen and be popular and cool and enjoy that part of her life to the fullest...and that's what she thinks will get her that, just know that that person you're seeing, it's not the same person anda hung out with in primary anymore, most likely she will change again when she gets older, but who cares it isn't about her it's about anda and figuring out who anda are, enjoy all of the wonderful things that anda have and forget her, anda may never be able to find a new best friend if anda don't alih on and forget her, good luck kid
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sometimes losing a best friend could be like, severing one of your limbs ^ ^ XD because anda were so close, it's like there is a hole where she was (i've Lost a number of best friends) but since she was constant with anda for a long time the pain must be greater...but just keep looking ke hadapan for new opertunities, and don't look so far ahead that anda forget to see the good things that are right in front of anda ^ ^
coriann posted hampir setahun yang lalu
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all my Cd's are dubstep now. all scratched up :/
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XD
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seffro said:
I Lost the greatest friend I've ever had a bulan ago
his parents made it so I may never see/talk to him again
I remember meeting him just like this
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 I Lost the greatest friend I've ever had a bulan lalu his parents made it so I may never see/talk to him again I remember meeting him just like this
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lol, i like the pic...so did anda actually lose someone?
coriann posted hampir setahun yang lalu
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Awwwww!!!!
prettyme16 posted hampir setahun yang lalu
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:\ ....don't give up hope!
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