Is this really too much to ask for??!!

anda do' nt have to do anything anda do not want to .

if anda do ' nt want a boyfriend in high school , thats perfectly fine , anda should never try to rush these things because other people are doing it .

and i have the same needs for a man , as anda do .

just keep looking he will come around .

is it bad to have preferences? absolutely not.

there is no problem in looking for someone who anda want to tarikh with your telah diberi preferences. however sometimes a dose of reality is in need. keep in mind that not everyone's gonna fit your image, and if they do they won't be the best of persons all the time. i suppose what people mean sejak "unrealistic" is that anda won't find anyone looking for a set few characteristics. my choice would be to let things happen naturally, but of course that's my choice. you're free to take whatever path anda want

the only thing negative i find about what anda say is anda complaining about it. anda wanna find someone thats great good for anda but honestly those sorts of komen-komen are better of kept between friends, not anonymous strangers on the internet who have far less nice things to say

anda probably have someone like that in your life, in the friendzone. Poor guy.

Hmm, no it´s not. I think that it doesn´t necessarily have to be hot.I really don´t care if the boy is hot atau not, I just care that he respects people,to be honest, smart,kind and that he doesn´t brag stuff.

Nope

it is not! don't let anybody pressure anda into being something you're not! i mean, you're not a drone, everyone is "not" going to be the same, and high-school kids can't seem to understand that, in high-school, there are a lot of groups and possies and the moto is, be like us, atau get out of the club, but later on you'll see that all of that doesn't matter, but anda matter, and your hapiness matters, so i say follow your hati, tengah-tengah girl :) i think you'll be happier that way sweetie, than if anda follow somebody elses hati, tengah-tengah XD atau be who somebody else thinks anda should be, trust me, i've tried to please people, it DOESN'T work! for me at least, all anda can really so "is" be yourself, turns out, that's what works best, so good luck dearie, just relax, sit back and take life one step at a time because the people who mind don't matter and the people who matter don't mind :P LOL (this isn't always true though) anyways, good luck! :D