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I've been speaking to this boy on Facebook for ages, we've never met.. I'm 14 and he's 16. We skype nearly every night and he's so funny, kind and really sweet. He does loads of magic tricks and ughhh I don't even know. He's perfect! He always tells me I'm beautiful, always listens to me and has helped me with a few issues. But.... He's Lost his virginity and I'm a virgin, he told me he's had sex over 50 times. He says that he wants to do sexual things with me but I don't feel comfortable with that, I normally say ''I'll see'' atau ''I don't know yet'' But I don't want to tell him I don't want to have sex with him incase he stops talking to me, he's too good to lose! I've never felt so happy but I'm not ready to have sex with someone I barely even know. How do I tell him I don't want to have sex with him without him getting angry atau stop talking to me? Please help!!
 EmLuvsSprinkles posted hampir setahun yang lalu
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EgoMouse said:
Say you're not interested in sex. Simple right?
Don't make it any lebih complicated than it should be.
I had a lot of sex but I would never stop talking to a person just for saying she's not interested. He's not going to stop talking >> Believe me when I say this, men think lebih than about sex and when we talk about sexual things with a person, it doesn't ALWAYS mean he would actually do it. anda two are just Skyping, it already shows he can't have sex with anda anyways and he's just having fun with fantasizing only.
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posted hampir setahun yang lalu 
peacebaby7 said:
He sounds like a player to me. If he's bragging about his "sexual accomplishments," then I assure anda that he's most likely not "too good to lose." And anda don't have to do anything you're not ready for, so don't let him pressure anda into anything. Go ahead and tell him that you're not ready for that and don't wish to engage in anything sexual with him. If he stops talking to you, then anda deserve better. anda should focus on finding someone who will respect your feelings and furthermore, not have the likely possibility of an STD due to frivolous sex (not saying that's how all STD's are contracted, but in his case, that's how it would be most likely).

There's this guy I liked, for example. He was everything I thought I was looking for in a guy. He never asked me for sex, but if he had, I don't care how much of a saint I thought he was, that would end it for me. Turns out he was a bit of a jerk anyway.

And call me a girl all anda want, but in my opinion, sex should be something shared between two people who have known each other for a long time and Cinta each other, except in the case of still being a minor. Even if anda met someone in middle school and are still seeing them as a junior, sex should still be something put off at least until school is finished. Condoms and birth control pills are not 100%. If you're going to risk the possibility of getting pregnant, anda should at least want to be able to have the money to care for it.

Hope that helps, and good luck.
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posted hampir setahun yang lalu 
Blaze_of_Ares said:
It sounds like he has the wrong intentions. Tell him no, don't let him pressure anda into it. If he stops talking to anda because anda won't have sex, it means that's all he wanted and he wasn't really interested into you. But if he respects your choice and is willing to wait, well his a good fella. But don't have sex. You're both underage and its dangerous too. Just because he had sex countless times doesn't mean its safe. "Achilles may have killed hundreds, but an Arrow killed him"
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posted hampir setahun yang lalu 
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^well said!
JDupres2012 posted hampir setahun yang lalu
JDupres2012 said:
Definitely tell him anda don't want to have sex. If he is as awesome as anda think, then this isn't a problem at all. In fact, he should respect anda for that. If he does stop talking to you, then he is a scumbag who wasn't as awesome as he was making anda think, i.e. he was playing you. If he was really too good to lose, he wouldn't be Lost over something like this. I don't mean to be harsh, but I'm one of those brutally honest kind of people. :) I wish anda the best with this!
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posted hampir setahun yang lalu 
sieluvzsoul said:
Well...try reasoning with him, if hes as sweet as anda say, then he otta understand, srry if this didnt help any, i really tried
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posted hampir setahun yang lalu 
summer448 said:
Just tell him you're not comfortable having sex yet. anda should never toy around with your virginity like that just because your afraid of losing someone. Once its gone anda can't get it back.
If the boy is really into anda he will respect and understand your feelings towards the subject and alih past it. If he does get mad and stop talking to you, you're probably better off without him /.\
I hope this helps a little <3
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posted hampir setahun yang lalu 
BlindBandit92 said:
"sighs" Why do people make this harder than it is. I am a virgin and I'll tell ya straight. If I didn't want to have sex with him/her. I'd tell them no and be adamant. And if he is frankly upset about some aspect of you. He may not be the person for anda and alih on. Simple.
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posted hampir setahun yang lalu 
neonClouds said:
>he's had sex over 50 times

toplel
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posted hampir setahun yang lalu 
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Just say no. If he gets upset about anda saying no he's probably just after some poon.
neonClouds posted hampir setahun yang lalu
x-Yumi-x3 said:
If he only wants anda for your body why would anda want to be Friends with him anyway. Tell him I don't wanna have sex it's that simple.


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posted hampir setahun yang lalu 
karolinak1999 said:
16 and had sex 50 times huh? From what your saying he seems dangerous...should end things with him....just sayin...
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posted hampir setahun yang lalu 
-DarkGirl23- said:
If you're not content with having sex atau expressing sexual desires with anyone, then don't. If the other individual pressures anda atau disrespects anda in any way as a result of that then guess what.... He's not perfect.
And you, along with any other individual, deserve better than that.
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posted hampir setahun yang lalu 
Book-Freak said:
anda must never feel pressured to do something sexual if anda don't want to, especially not to keep a friendship alive. If e really is your friend, he'll respect that. If anda don't want to tell him straight up that anda don't want to sleep with him, use the 'I'm underage' line, just make sure anda aren't pressured into something. Any sexual encounter, first time atau not, should be happily consented to, not pressured on you. You're meant to enjoy it, after all.
I understand that he's a good friend, but he shouldn't use that to have sex with you.
Also, he's probably exaggerating the number of times he's had sex.
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