Yes I would care (if I had a significant other) but my best friend of 16 years now smokes Cannabis/Weed as well as regular Tobacco and it kills me so much inside knowing she does this and won't get help for it. I HATE knowing she does that to herself. =(
Yes. I probably wouldn't be with that person, especially if they weren't trying to help themselves. I don't have anything against people who have atau are struggling with addiction problems but having a relationship wish someone struggling with such is probably very complicated and most of the time they just don't end well.