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Should I forgive her??

I was best Friends with this girl for six years, from nursery to the end of primary school. We did everything together, were pretty much joined at the hip. But then out of nowhere in the summer holidays she just cut me off completely, refused to talk to me and avoided me for ages until I was forced to take the hint. I was so upset and so angry, but I did eventually get over it. Now all of a sudden she's emailed me saying she's really sorry and knows what she did was wrong and wants to be my friend again. Should I forgive her??
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i think u should kus u were best Friends from the get go
bigd1 posted hampir setahun yang lalu
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nooo way if she was horrid 2 yaa perahu nelayan kecil, pukulan her and never be her friend again x
ilovethexfacter posted hampir setahun yang lalu
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dnt forgive her if she was complety mean 2 yaa
ilovethexfacter posted hampir setahun yang lalu
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i think anda should discuss it with her. Maybe she had a reason for doing that and discuss what she felt like and tell her what yu felt like when she was saying that.
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breebree446 said:
anda should be Friends with her. When anda leave this world, regret nothing. At least have closure with her. But let her know how bad she made anda feel. She was your best friend "Once" why can't she be it again. She may have been going through an awkward time.
I hope it works out well for anda two:-)
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anda should be Friends with her. When anda leave this world, regret nothing. At least have closure with her. But let her know how bad she made anda feel. She was your best friend "Once" why can't she be it again. She may have been going through an awkward time. I hope it works out well for anda two:-)
posted hampir setahun yang lalu 
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yeaah i agree but if she does it continually then she is not worth feeling upset and angry about
seksyglam posted hampir setahun yang lalu
lilacool said:
it's up to u!if u need a mate and think that she's gonna be a better person in the future,then u shud!
and if not,u shudn't!
But here's wat i'd do,i'd accept and see if shes any better.if she did the same thing and ignored me again,i'd hate her and never make up with her again! =)hope i helped!i did mi best :-)
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posted hampir setahun yang lalu 
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What i would do: don't accept completely yet and discuss it with her ask her why she did it, tell her how she made anda feel when she did that
seksyglam posted hampir setahun yang lalu
joelemasters said:
Well i guess it really depends...do anda feel like allowing her back into your life?its good that she berkata she was sorry..but i think that anda deserve a reason to as of why she did it.but if anda feel like anda want to give her another chance at a friendship then go for it.
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RedDice99 said:
I think anda should, if she does it a saat time, then forgive her again. But if she does it for a third time, then don't forgive her keldai anymore. I think that's what anda should do. anda agree?
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posted hampir setahun yang lalu 
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Anyone else agree?
RedDice99 posted hampir setahun yang lalu
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I agree with anda on that.i think that some kind of explaination should be telah diberi to why she did it though
joelemasters posted hampir setahun yang lalu
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That's what I'm sayin' Thanks
RedDice99 posted hampir setahun yang lalu
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no i think give her 1 chance if she does it again tell her LAST time and if she really wants to be your friend she should'nt do it again. However if she does it 3 times then obviously she is not clever enough to realise she is losing a very nice forgiving friend
seksyglam posted hampir setahun yang lalu
rebcam13 said:
Yes anda should, because she was probaly trying to fit in with snooty people atau something, but frogive her a friendship like that shoul last forever.
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posted hampir setahun yang lalu 
lollipopszx3 said:
I think so. Six years is a very long time and well if she is your best friend she probably has a good reason for avoiding you. I don't think that over one thing that happened for two months should break a friendship that lasted for six years.
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posted hampir setahun yang lalu 
PoddoChan said:
YES anda SHOULD!
Could be a mistake atau something that she acted that way, Forget it and just think it's no biggie :)
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xneville_rocksx said:
I think that anda should see how sorry she really is. If she is truely sorry, then anda should become Friends again. If she is not, then I do not think that that person deserves to be your friend.
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posted hampir setahun yang lalu 
Jeffersonian said:
NO!!! If she ignored anda completely once, she could do it again. I was in such a friendship, and we were "friends" for a long time like anda and this girl were. Not to mention I also thought this girl was my best friend. When I finally realised I was being used, and I decided to cut off the so called friendship, anda know what she did? She sent me an e-mail saying that it was obviously a friendship that had "outstayed it's welcome" Your case sounds an awful lot like mine.
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tooch said:
I think anda should talk to her and try and find out why she cut anda off all of a sudden.
See her point of view, make your opinion and then see if her reason was good enough for forgiveness.
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