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Have anda ever been stuck lacking emapthy?

Not as in like, zombie-faced-no-emotion-prick type of empathy, but lebih of a, anda generally try to feel happy for someone atau about something but it just flatlines into a "meh." sort of thing? I guess it's lebih so apathy.
atau anda laugh knowing damn well that anda had to make it come out whether it be consciously atau subconsciously sometimes?

I dunno, it's hard to explain I guess. It's like the older I get the less real laughter comes around. atau oddly enough, I can get happy enough but not know how to express it, so it just comes out as a blank/default slate of "*in Kratos voice* BOI, idgaf" sort of facial expression from what I've noticed.
I think I'm some sorta stuck yall XD
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no, but i have been stuck lacking empathy xD
cosmic_fusions posted hampir setahun yang lalu
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.. I was going to turn that into an inside joke, but never mind XD
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4vonlea said:
Oh, good lord no. I'm at the completely opposite extreme. I've been wracked with crippling empathy since I was born. I am moved so easily and very sensitive, it doesn't even matter which emotions (don't get me wrong though, I am in no way a pushover wuss) It becomes so overwhelming that sometimes it's all I can do to just curl up in my shell and shut down my brain for a while. So count your blessings! I say that half-jokingly of course, having a significant lack of empathy is just as unhealthy as having an overload of empathy. So yep, anda can have TOO much empathy. I become so concerned with others I sometimes forget I even exist, and while that sounds like an altruistic concept, it is not all it's cracked up to be, believe me. My mother told me a great analogy once: anda see someone drowning, but if anda start drowning too, there's no way anda could rescue that someone.
I know It's only natural for people to constantly want to be like someone else and that in and of itself denotes empathy and while there may be admirable qualities in others that anda can take a note from, and while there is always lebih room for improvement with anyone regarding traits and inner conflict, don't try so hard, treasure and make the most of what anda got first and foremost, don't sell out, stay true to yourself, find your groove, do what anda believe in and Cinta doing and you'll have a better life....
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Oh, good lord no. I'm at the completely opposite extreme. I've been wracked with crippling empathy since I was born. I am moved so easily and very sensitive, it doesn't even matter which emotions (don't get me wrong though, I am in no way a pushover wuss) It becomes so overwhelming that sometimes it's all I can do to just curl up in my shell and shut down my brain for a while. So count your blessings! I say that half-jokingly of course, having a significant lack of empathy is just as unhealthy as having an overload of empathy. So yep, anda can have TOO much empathy. I become so concerned with others I sometimes forget I even exist, and while that sounds like an altruistic concept, it is not all it's cracked up to be, believe me. My mother told me a great analogy once: anda see someone drowning, but if anda start drowning too, there's no way anda could rescue that someone. I know It's only natural for people to constantly want to be like someone else and that in and of itself denotes empathy and while there may be admirable qualities in others that anda can take a note from, and while there is always lebih room for improvement with anyone regarding traits and inner conflict, don't try so hard, treasure and make the most of what anda got first and foremost, don't sell out, stay true to yourself, find your groove, do what anda believe in and Cinta doing and you'll have a better life....
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What makes it even lebih frustrating is that I'm usually that person who has the biggest uplifting spirit in the world. I can motivate someone else waaaay better than myself, and that's usually how it is sometimes. It's not like I'm never happy atau anything, because that's usually the case XD But as of the last like, tahun atau so, I've felt like this. I know that I care about people, it just doesn't feel like it's actually there sometimes, and I don't like having to remind myself that it is...because what the hell right? LOL
pLaStIcSUNDAE posted hampir setahun yang lalu
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Oh I can relate to anda like on the part anda berkata anda know anda care about people but anda have a hard time menunjukkan type of situation.
Blaze1213IsBack posted hampir setahun yang lalu
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@pLaStIcSUNDAE oh godddd, I'm so the same way, I can pep talk anyone except for myself and I find I tend to be so much harder on myself than others. The lebih I think about it, the lebih I realize I think I've got a self-destructive personality. And while it's probably not done on a cognitive level, at the end of the hari it just isn't fair for anyone. Absolutely no one is inferior to anyone. anda seem like a good person, give yourself a break, treat yourself, look in the mirror everyday and tell yourself that you're worth it. Force yourself if anda have to!
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CokeTheUmbreon said:
In a way, I guess.
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kingcesar67 said:
I have. Yes
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Angelhugs said:
Nope.
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Blaze1213IsBack said:
Like anda dikomen on someone post, yes I do feel like I lack emotions. Like how anda dikomen that anda know anda do care about your Friends but anda have a hard time menunjukkan it. I do tend to deal with that. I don't know am not an emotional person so I don't find a lot things sad so I feel like am an emotinless b*$^#@ sometimes LOL so yeah I can relate to a lot things anda said.
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Zeppie said:
Yes, I either have a lot of empathy atau moments of seterusnya to none. It's usually the former but I've had moments where I can't make an emotional connection to something that would require one.
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