i need help on dealing with hard times!( be careful what anda dont wish for)prop for reply

Oh my gosh, thats awful :-(. I'm so sorry.

First of all, it's not your fault that your friend has cancer. anda need to support her at this tough time. Let her know she's in your prayers, and help her in any way anda can. And don't worry, just because she has cancer dosen't mean anda are going to get it.

For the saat thing, theres not much anda can do. I'm sorry that it happened, but I am not good at giving Nasihat for hard stuff like that.

As for the third thing, we all make mistakes. Forgive yourself and alih on. If he atau his girlfriend asks atau says anything, admit to doing it and say that anda were wrong and wernt trying to do anything to get between them atau break them up.

Good luck with this issue! Know that anda are in my prayers!

1. i would try to help your friend feel better. just because she has cancer doesent mean that she wont make it. there are many surviors.
2.i would just try to forget that whole situation.
3. i would talk to him and ask him why he did wat he did.
ps
i used i would the whole time.

When life gives anda a hundred reasons to cry, tunjuk life that anda have a thousand reasons to smile. Be who anda are and say what anda feel because those who mind don't matter and those who matter don't mind, For as we grow up, we learn that even the one person that wasn't supposed to ever let us down, probably will. You'll have your hati, tengah-tengah broken and you'll break others' hearts. You'll fight with your best friend atau maybe even fall in Cinta with them, and you'll cry because time is flying by. So take too many pictures, laugh too much, forgive freely, and Cinta like you've never been hurt. Life comes with no guarantees, no time outs, no saat chances. anda just have to live life to the fullest, tell someone what they mean to anda and tell someone off, speak out, dance in the pouring rain, hold someone's hand, comfort a friend, fall asleep watching the sun come up, stay up late, be a flirt, and smile until your face hurts. Don't be afraid to take chances atau fall in Cinta and most of all, live in the moment because every saat anda spend angry atau upset is a saat of happiness anda can never get back
Live with no excuses and Cinta with no regrets, cause in the end, it's not going to matter how many breaths anda took, but how many moments took your breath away

AND!!!!!

Understand the past, let go of pain and sorrow, for if do the road will open and everything will go right
For Cinta comes to those who still hope even though they've been disappointed, to those who still believe even though they've been betrayed, to those who still Cinta even though they've been hurt before.
The future is what anda make it. Only anda can make it depressing atau happy. Only anda can make yourself have a bad future atau a good one. Sometimes I ask myself why not choose to die? Well the answer to that is because we have the power to change the future. I chose to change it.

plus u dont have to give me a prop

God, im so so sorry. my dad died of cancer when i was about 7 i think. i didn't really understand it at the time so i don't know if i was sad. so i don't really know how to give anda coping Nasihat with death issues. but anda are in my prayers and thoughts from this hari on. and just because your friend got cancer, does NOT mean anda will. but make sure to be there for your friend because even though this is a hard time for you, it also is for her. and i'm sure she will be there for anda in return. and about the crush thing, just don't let that happen again. even though anda like him, he DOES have a girlfriend. so just let the past be the past. and if anda feel like crying, don't hold it in. just cry. it helps. maybe some people won't always be there for you, but God always will be. he welcomes anda with open arms.