I am often starting to be a peminat of something but If anda are peminat of somebody/something there can always be a situation when anda will want to stop it. Lets be honest. It often happens with me and I am sure a lot of people have had situation like that atau something simmilar. But then anda start to feel distracted. anda don't know what to start with. Maybe anda are even afraid of, for exmple, how others would take it. But don't worry. Here are a short guide that will help anda to stop being a peminat easy and fast.
Step 1. Understanding.
So anda just understood that anda don't like this thing anymore? Lets think about it. Do anda really want to stop? Won't anda feel bad after it. Actually it is just theorical part of stopping being a peminat but it is important. anda don't want to throw all your merchandise out and then cry and shout "I want it all back. I still Cinta it." Think twice before doing seterusnya steps.
Step 2. Big trashcan.
It is the most important and a quite symbolic step. anda take everything off. All the posters, all little peminat things anda have around you. Take everything away. It has symbolic meaning. Getting rid of obsession, of being a fan. Then throw everything out. EVERYTHING. Rip all the printouts, old posters. Get rid of all that. anda are starting a new life. Congratulate yourself.
Step 3. Things that are worth money.
Probably anda have something like CD's, DVD's, books, T-shirts, cups etc. Things that anda have paid a money for and they are still worth it. anda can throw them out of course but better idea is to just sell them. Maybe someone who is a peminat of a thing anda are stopping to be a peminat of will buy them. Things are used so anda won't probably sell them for the same price anda bought them but anyway... Maybe your cousin likes them? Give them to him. Also anda can donate things if anda want. Poor people will be happy about almost new T-shirts even with anda ex-idol pic on them.
Step 4. Digital cleaning.
Take your phone, tablet, computer and other devices and padam everything like Muzik files, pics. It also may have symbolic meaning and anda will get a lot of free angkasa in your computers memory. Clean all anda social networks profiles. Maybe anda have Facebook banner with your ex-idols pic. Change it! Unfollow it. Unsubscribe channels in youtube. padam thematic boards in pinterest. Stop being a peminat of Kelab in Fanpop and other fanclubs.
Step 5. Let the world know it.
Stopped being a peminat of Justin Bieber but some months later your godmother gives anda a cup with his pic on it for christmas, thinking that anda still like him? Don't let it happen. Tell everybody that anda are stopping being a fan. Write an arcticle in internet like I did. Tell it to your family and friends. Let them know.
Step 6. Start a new life.
Its the best part. anda can find a new thing to be a peminat of. anda can simply enjoy your freedom :) Remember, stopping being a peminat is good thing and anda don't have to be ashamed because it oppens anda to new opportunities, new things to like. Just be happy and proud of yourself about liking what anda like and disliking what anda dislike and if somebody says things like "How could anda stop being his fan?I hate anda for it. anda ruined our friendship." Remember that anda can do whatever anda want and its your life no matter what others say.