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posted by africachick
hi,

my boyfriend of almost 9 months broke up with me and he already has a girlfriend!!! I dont know what to do and i cant gat over him. i cry myself 2 sleep every ight cause i dont know what to do! He's pretending that nothing ever happened between us!!! I really Cinta him! All my Friends tell me 2 alih on but i just dont know how!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! I really need advice... I would appreciate it if u could help me out. PLEASE help me out...

Sincerly,
Yvone Joubert
AKA: africachick
posted by hipstabelike
So here's my problem.
There is this guy I have known for a long time and he's nice. I mean he's nice. He has had a crush on me for the longest time. I have rejected him 3 times. Since then he has still tried to get out of the friend zone box. He berkata to one of his Friends if I dated him I would solve 99 percent of his problems and I was right there so I berkata I will make anda 99 lebih problems. After that he still hasn't telah diberi up. He left for a trip and now he is back from it. I don't want him to think I am a jerk. So what should I say to him?
Stranger: Tell me what's troubling you
You: Life -.-
Stranger: What about it?
You: Drama D:
Stranger: like what
Stranger: I got nothing better to do, fill me in
You: Well, see, I have a friend, that I really like...
Stranger: And?
You: He doesn't feel the same...):
Stranger: Such is life
Stranger: Plenty of ikan in the sea, que sera sera
Stranger: What will be will be
Stranger: You'll be okay
You: (:
Stranger: Uh..okay
Stranger: Was that it?
You: Well, he acts like we're going out, its strange.
Stranger: What do anda mean?
You: I always hang out with him at school, and once school finishes, he'd Ciuman me goodbye...
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With the rise in brutal verbal beatings on the internet these days, with kids telling other kids things they would NEVER have berkata to them in person, I think it's important to point out some words that should slide right off your back.

That being said, I know it's easier to pretend that words don't hurt when they actually do. This senarai of words, are words that I have learned not to take offensively, and I will give anda an example of why each one doesn't bother me. This way, if anda ever feel yourself stung sejak the verbal attacks of an insecure online "friend," anda can read this artikel and know...
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Ok, so I have this friend who's a Freshman, like me, at my high school & everyday when I get to my lunch table, usually there's nobody there, so I go on my phone & onto YouTube to watch some video I really like. Well, while I'm doing that, my friend Mitchell always sneaks up behind me & tasers my sides. Well, this would be ok if I wasn't extremely ticklish there! Whenever he does this, I always jump, squeal, & bring my arms down to protect my ticklish sides.

He's always done this & he enjoys it, I can see that. To be honest, I do like it when he does this, but sometimes, I don't. And usually, I'm having a crappy hari after 4th hour(Exploring Science), because there's a girl in my meja, jadual group, Lauren, who's always snobby to me & mean. I never did anything to her to make her hate me!! So usually after that class, I'm in a bad mood. But when Mitchell tasers me, it makes me feel better. But I'm not sure what I should say to him!! Please help me out!!!
posted by Shelly_McShelly
"I've found that a substantial fraction of many people's days is spent worrying about what others think of them. If nobody ever worried about what was in other people's heads, we'd all be 33 percent lebih effective in our lives and on our jobs.

How did I come up with 33 percent? I'm a scientist. I like exact numbers, even if I can't always prove them. So let's just run with 33 percent.

I used to tell antone who worked in my research group: "You don't ever have to worry about what I'm thinking. Good atau bad, I'll let anda know what's in my head."

That meant when I wasn't happy about something, I spoke...
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posted by Cutebutcrazy--
Well i know people thnk about alot of things like suicide and all of that. I'm here to let anda know I've been through tons of things and what your going through I've most likely gone through. I just want to say it anda just need Nasihat atau want to talk I'm here. I know everything can be scary but anda can't let that get anda down. So before yo udo something studip atau something you'll regret. ie)boys girls life. Talk to someone. If i knew this before I'd be so much better off. If anda want to talk send me a message I'll help anda out.
posted by Shelly_McShelly
hi, so i think i might have depression. i know people just say these things to get attention, but i'm not just saying it, this is something i'm really scared about. i'm sorry if this is really long, but i need to just let it out.
i'm sad all the time, manly when it comes to things like school and family. i just started tahun 10 and it really isn't gong well.
i've been put in the challenge class (advanceed class for super smart people) and dont know why. everyone n my class gets A in every subject and 100% in tests and my average grade is a C atau B, and my average percentage is under 75%. it's...
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 me SurferChic
me SurferChic
all people of Fanpop i have a habit of biting my nails my mom and me have tried every single thing to try so fellow fanpopers please give me a solution if anda do i will give anda somthing in return if anda want a reward if IT DOESN'T WORK i will still make anda somthing anda just leave me what anda want in your picture unless i already tried your suggestions thanx for Membaca

yours truly SurferChic. :D


ps thanx so much if anda responed pss thanx
















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 Mário *-* the amazing guy who saved my life in so many ways, my boyfriend and the Cinta of my life <3333
Mário *-* the amazing guy who saved my life in so many ways, my boyfriend and the love of my life <3333
I want to dedicate this to my boyfriend Mário aka Fanpop user leuron. It's not enough, no matter how many times I tell him how thankful I am for what he did and still does for me.

You are my boyfriend, my love, my life.
The one I want to spend the rest of my life with.
But you're not only that.
You have always been the best of Friends I ever had.
The hari we first talked we had no idea.
What was gonna happen later.
We became close friends.
Because anda helped me out of trouble.
If there was noone I could talk to
You still had advice.
People got tired of me talking about my troubles.
Not you.
You never got...
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posted by iluvtheoffice12
first of all i would like to say thnk u to all u fanpoppers out ther i have talked to several of u about this and u have been very suportive and comforting and im sure any1 tht reeds this will be to. i made this spot for people tht need to get things off their chests can so here we go....


when u wer here i loved u,i miss u lebih thn ever and i want u bak lebih thn anything ,the scars tunjuk my pain L.B. R.I.P. i mis and Cinta u forevr linzi

her name was lyndsay


she was the most amazing person ive ever met open to all ways of life and all opinions she was beautiful smart funny and she loved to party....
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Ok, here it is,
One hari I'm at school, just minding my own biz, and talking to my friends. Then one of my ex boyfriends Friends comes up. Hes all," Hey, heres a note from Robert." So I read it. It read,
If I could have 3 wishes, it would be to have the girl I Cinta back who burnd me, and to have enough money to buy her whatever she wants...
Obvisosly, hes talking about me. We dated last year, now... hes still on my shoulders, like an annoying nuri, burung nuri that won't go away. My friend told him that I wanted to go back out with him... and I don't!
Then...*sighs* then, theres my online boyfriend... hes sweet, charming, and we do things... I've known Robert longer, but my Cinta for him..(online bf) is so strong... we talked with our voices today and I almost screamed...
But the probolm is, is that I'm tring to break up with Robert, but every time I'm about to say it, he gives me a gift atau when I say it, he laughs and thinks I'm joking.. What do I do?!?!
posted by Emmett4ever
Though sometimes we feel like we have this huge weight on our sholders. We feel so alone in this world. That no one cares for us. But we just have to open our eyes and look right seterusnya to us. We always have someone there for us. We are never alone.
Life is like a game. But it only has one mode and one mode only...hard. But to me it seems better that way. Like I berkata Life is a game but when anda have instructions to win it doesn't it get boring quickly. Life wasn't made to be easy. I learned that the hard way..but someone very special to me once told me "Make Life what anda want". anda are the only...
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posted by Cullens4eva
Hi people. well im starting up an Nasihat column for those people who need Nasihat through situations and questions. If anda yourself find your stuck in a problem e-mel my account at dearannie_advice@hotmail.co.uk. this is my special account i use for people needing help. Dont worry anything anda say will never be told to anyone else, thats my promise. If anda dont think anda trust me then send it to my Fanpop account. im here to help those stuck.

please if anda need advice, just try it.

the new Dear Annie
xxxxx
posted by kid_symmetry
hei everyone!

So i have a really good guy friend that I now have feelings for. He's the first guy that I can't get over. I've never had a boyfriend, only really good guy Friends and I don't quite know what to do!! He doesn't like to talk about how he feels, he is always in and out of relationships, and he is honestly a really nice guy! He and I can talk freely about almost anything and he and I are now really close.
School got back last monday and He had I have been hanging out a lot. Most of our Friends have been perpecahan, berpecah up onto different classes and only he and I are left of what was our little...
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posted by DragonsArt
Many people say that they have a terrable life. But in truth, that's only a fragment of your story.

Strippers-
Strippers are one of the many people who's dreams where shattered in their youth and went mentaly cracked or, "hormanal leads" (which is someone who rarely thinks for themselves and runs their life through instinct). Not ALL strippers where broken in their youth. Some where forced to turn to this because of "insparation" atau have no other jobs to turn to.

Obease people-
Fat people most commonly are born fat because the father is fat. Others are fat because of stress. Insulting people...
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posted by squish555
I met this girl four weeks lalu and since then we have spent most of our time together; we even worked out the other hari we've seen each other everyday for nearly 3 weeks. From the beginning our relationship was very touchy feely and I had no problem with that; the only thing is I think I've started developing feelings for her plus I've never liked a girl before.
After a few times of her coming round my house my family started making funny komen-komen like 'are anda decent?' before coming in the room when she was around. I thought nothing of it until we were at the makan malam, majlis makan malam and they started questioning...
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posted by SilverFanGirl
My own advice. anda con't have to take it. Its just something I like to do. Hopefully I can do something lebih once I'm out of high school! :)

🔲Life🔲
Life is like a race. Some are cheaters, some aren't. Just remember there are stages anda have to go through to keep moving on. In order to get to the finish line, anda have to keep running. 

🔲Living🔲
Have anda ever wondered how many stars are in the sky? Have anda ever wondered what stories you'll be able to pass down to your grandchildren, maybe even great-grandchildren? Just because life is harder than anda expect, your path is still laid...
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posted by HonoviHania
The art of being wise is knowing what to overlook.-William James

A wise man learns sejak the mistakes of others,
a fool sejak his own.-Latin Proverb

Silence does not always mark wisdom.-Samuel Taylor Coleridge.

A loving hati, tengah-tengah is the truest wisdom.-Charles Dickens

Try not to become a man of success but a man of value.-Albert Einstein

Happy are those who dream dreams and are ready to pay the price to make them come true.-Leon J. Suenes

The power of imagination makes us infinite.-John Muir

You miss 100% of the shots anda don't take.-Wayne Gretzky

Most of the shadows of this life are caused sejak our standing in...
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posted by cassidy86
Hi guys! If any of anda want to talk, vent atau just get things off your chest, please let me know! Many times i had to talk to one of my friends. I felt so much better afterwards! We all need somebody to turn too once in awhile and i hope anda consider me! i'm Cassidy86 and just want anda to know that i'm here for you! everything will stay between anda and me! I promise! this is just the saat bulan of a new year, i wish everyone the best for 2011. If i can offer any advise to anyone, please let me know. Wishing anda all well! y.f, Cass~