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Is there something wrong with me?

MY family doesnt aprovw of my Cinta for mj.they say it is an unhealthy obsession.So the other hari i went and tried to buy the mj vision and My brother berkata " No lebih mj stuff,you are to obsessed" That hurt and I am thinking hard on this one.I can see no wrong in mj. I think hes better than my own family.I would die for him. Is there soemthing wrong with me,because its tearing me apart,but I know that no matter what anybody sais, I cant... no i wont stop loving him
 mjrocks13 posted hampir setahun yang lalu
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Michael Jackson Jawapan

lucaslover528 said:
Sweetie don't worry about it. I sometimes feel that Michael is the only one there for me too. On a lot of occasions I feel that he's the only one that listens to me, understands me.

I can see why you'd sometimes think that Michael's better for your happiness, believe me I do. I can name numerous times when I felt like saying, "I've had enough. Michael, take me with you." I can relate with anda there. Michael isn't there to judge and he isn't there to disagree. Perhaps that's what makes it so simple to think that he's the only thing that keeps anda going...

Try to realise that your family are always there for anda in physical form. MJ's there for anda in spiritual form. But your family will be sejak your side forever.
There's nothing wrong with you. I can see that anda truly Cinta him, but don't let that blind anda from the people that will be there with anda at the end of the day.

Hope this helps.
L.O.V.E
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God, you're like the MJ shrink! :P gr8 answer
eken posted hampir setahun yang lalu
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LOL thanks! ;)
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WithAChildHeart said:
Not in the least. Many MJ peminat-peminat of our generation have witnessed that, I don't exclude myself. You're perfectly fine.

The matter is that a lot changed since our parents were in our age and what we are now. When our parents were a peminat of someone they really admired them. This is not the case with us anymore, because the things we fancy are a "phase" and come and go. Well, not always, of course, but most of the time, especially with younger children. E.g. an eight-year old is a peminat of Hannah Montana and wants everything related to her. After a while this "obsession" fades and she starts liking someone else, this drives parents nuts.

But I do think that you're old enough to say that your Cinta for Michael is everlasting. You're "just" a devoted peminat and I think that it's unfair the way your family treats you. Don't be worried, though, this will loosen up very soon! (:
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thanks that really touches my hati, tengah-tengah
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zupanic said:
Yes..you are obsessed...we all are obsessed...but I Cinta my obsession:D
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UmOkayThen said:
There's nothing wrong with you, you're AMAZING! My family makes fun of me for my Cinta for MJ, but they let me get lots of MJ things. I don't think it's fair that anda couldn't get Vision. Like I would seriously buy anda one if I knew anda :)
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awww i would buy u one too
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zombiestars said:
have your family ever listen, saw atau know anything about michael but i'm sad 4 u and hope your family understands your Michael obession
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sunsetdriver said:
Not even. You're perfectly fine. I don't consider that being obsessed,just a devoted fan.
They just don't understand what MJ means to you. Most families are like that.

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PaisleyPark said:
" I think hes better than my own family.I would die for him."

Okay, it is perfectly fine to Cinta MJ...

But loving him lebih than your own family?!

That is not normal. I'm sorry.

anda did not know him in real life. This IS an obsession.

I'm not saying this to be mean, but maybe anda should talk to a psychiatrist to see why anda feel this way.
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i've been to a shrink it doesnt work nothing does
mjrocks13 posted hampir setahun yang lalu
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Then that one wasn't right for you, there is lebih than one shrink out there. anda just need to find the right one.
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AimieDawn said:
From knowing other peminat-peminat of Michael, I know they have connections to him sejak his Muzik and his love. But anda do have an unhealthy obsession. I don't know how your life with your family is back home, but no matter what, anda should never Cinta anyone lebih than your family. Especially someone anda never even knew personally. Michael would disapprove of this, since he loved family very much.

Trust me, I Cinta Michael, I truly do. anda don't have to get every single thing related to him to tunjuk how much anda Cinta him. It's about love, not obsession atau material things. It comes from the heart, y'know. Listen to his music, defend him, whatever, to tunjuk your love.

Please get help and try spending lebih time with your family. I mean, read with them, ride bikes with them, have family time!

This made me sick.

And it made me feel even lebih sick to see how many peminat-peminat are saying this is perfectly fine. I mean, so anda all approve of loving someone anda never even knew lebih than your family? Oh whatever.
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Agreed.
PaisleyPark posted hampir setahun yang lalu
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i understand but my family has never been there for me
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And anda think Michael would? I'm sorry, he was an amazing human and cared for all his fans, but anda really think he would've picked a Rawak peminat to be there for?
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^ Bit harsh...
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