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I feel like there is no where to turn. Everywhere I go I hear people talking about me, calling me stupid ugly. I can't take it anymore, even some of my Friends are treating me bad. I went to one of myy Friends party and we decided to play a game, there was two way to decide who gose first the ugliest atau the oldest they chose the ugliest and stared with me. I feel so alone, I've talked to people and still its no help, no one seems to understand how i feel, and i can't trust anyone. I really need help and I feel like if I don't get help soon, i'm going to end up hurting myself. Dose anyone have any websites that could help me atau something please? I'm in desparte need of it.

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DibLuver25 said:
I was in the same situation anda were last year, I turned to cutting and it didn't help at all. Sure it took my mind off the emotional pain, but in reality it was only giving me something to hide. Something lebih to add to all the drama. I really don't know what to tell you, but things get better, trust me. I went through the same thing. I really don't have any recources to help you, im really sorry. Maybe anda could try telling your Friends anda don't like it when they do that, and if they continue then I wouldn't be their friend anymore, it's just not worth it. As to deal with the bullies, just ignore them. It may be near impossible to do, but all bullies really want is to see anda suffer, why give them the satisfaction? They don't know anything, bullies are just ignorant and closed minded people. Also, maybe anda could start doing something anda enjoy, like for me I let out my emotions using puisi and drawing. It helped me get it all out without hurting myself. I also learned that it doesn't matter what anyone thinks of you, who are they to judge? People call me crazy for not caring, but I don't really care. Of course it still hurts when I get made fun of, but it's become easier and easier to realize that everyone who judges me for what I look like is a closed minded idiot. I hope this helped, I wish anda the best of luck!
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Thank anda that helps alot
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azkaban said:
They're obviously not your friends
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yea. i guess not
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_naiza said:
Just tell them to fuck themselves _|_
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That won't work t only maks them talk lebih
rose12345 posted hampir setahun yang lalu
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Just don't care, I'm sure, in your school still have people that Cinta anda :D
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yea
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someone_save_me said:
No, I'm sorry... have anda told your parents/guardians about this?
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kinda of, not everything, but all they keep saying is it'll get better. but its not
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Shadowmarioking said:
Don't hurt yourself, you'll only make the situation worse. I've been bullied before, and the best thing to do is to ignore what others say. Even better, talk back to them in a way like this:
Bully: God you're so ugly
You: Why thank you, I do look bad today huh? Oh well! *small giggle*
That'll tunjuk them that you're not affected sejak what they say, and eventually they'll stop.
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Alright i'll try
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Yeah if anda act like anda don't care then they will stop because they'll realize it's pointless since it has no effect on anda
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I agree, if anda tunjuk them that it doesn't bother you, they'll leave anda alone.
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LittleOtaku1 said:
do this to all of them:

t(-_-t)
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LOL thats funny
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narlyvamp1234 said:
dont hurt yourself, it never resolves the problem. i know a website, look up hell correspondence, type in the names of your tormentors and i will get revenge on them for you, dont worry, your grievance shall be avenged.
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alright thanks
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your welcome
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uhh it says u will go to hell -_-
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JaseKS said:
I know exactly how anda feel. All the guys at my school joke around and say they like me, and it drives me nuts. They taunt me, and I dont talk much, and they wont shut up and leave me alone. anda can talk to me anytime.
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Thanks
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chattycandy said:
this maybe
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im not sure but try it
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alright thank anda
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Sasume said:
Well I can tell anda from experience that whatever happens, there is nothing that demands the absolute worst solution that is irreversible. I'm sad to hear that even your Friends won't help you. This might sound cheesy but that truly means that they're not your friends. Real Friends won't try to bring anda down, they'll support anda and help you. Maybe it's time anda found new friends? Think about it this way: is EVERYONE really talking bad about you? anda make it worse on yourself when anda silently agree with the bullies. Why don't anda do something anda love? Play an instrument, a sport, read a book, listen to music. Try to distract yourself with something fun. If that fails I would suggest see a counselor atau something. I may not know you, but I want anda to be ok. Good luck!
This website might help:
link
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Thanks
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springely said:
Tell them anda don't care, and tell them if anda keep bothering you, anda will get them in trouble. If they keep doing it, tell your parents, then tell your teachers. anda need to tunjuk that anda don't want them anymore, and anda should tell them to go away.
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That's only going to make it harder on me, and if i tell it'll make it worst
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BabyBlud said:
This is a link to a website that shows different pautan to other sites about bullying and how to handle it -

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However if your Friends are starting to bully anda too, just to be 'in the crowd' then they are not true Friends and anda are better off without them.
I can't say whether you're ugly atau not as i don't know what anda look like, and sure anda may not be the prettiest one in the school, but i'm certain there is one aspect of anda that is gorgeous. Have anda ever thought that these people are bullying anda because they're jealous?
anda have something they don't and they want it, and to tunjuk that they are hounding anda to put anda down so low anda can't even accept yourself. Don't let them.
My Nasihat is that anda tell your parents, sit them down and explain that because of all the bullying and their 'it'll get better attitude' anda feel as though they don't care, that they have no time to help. If bullying doesn't get nipped in the bud once it starts then it can go on for years and years. And it can also lead to death. A dear friend of mine was bullied all the way through school, and on the last tahun he'd had enough and drowned himself. Because of that i've always felt the bullies had won. If anda start harming yourself, you're menunjukkan these bullies that what they are doing to anda is working. Try to ignore them as much as anda can as they'll get bored and stop once they know their words aren't taking effect. Go talk to your teachers, write letters to the board, ask the headmistress/master to do something. They have an obligation to stop this, i'm sure the school has a no bullying policy, so get them to use it and enforce it.
Hope everything gets sorted for anda soon, and anda need anyone to talk to i'm only a message away.
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Thanks
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taismo723 said:
I too was bullied. but sejak this asshole who didn't like me at all for some unknown reason. He berkata "I hate Arizona cuz it reminds me of Kacey. (me)". And one hari my teacher asked us if we would rather sit with people atau alone because we sat near each other for a while. The kid berkata company, but I berkata I'd rather die in a hole. Which was very true. Eventually after he moved, I sent him a message on Facebook about him being fat. But that is not what anda should do.

I adivse anda ignore them, and tunjuk them that anda don't give a shit. they should leave anda alone.
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thanks
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invaderlin123 said:
i get this all the time sweety
i have some difficulties on what im obsessed with take Yaoi for example me and my Friends Cinta Yaoi but they make fun of some of the couples i like.
ad some of my Friends dont like Yaoi at all and they make fun of me and push me in the lockers and they call me things like gay-lover and ignorant.
then one hari one of my Friends in chorus asked me why i like Yaoi so much i told her that its what i Cinta and if she couldnt accept that than that we shouldnt be Friends anymore. then i told her how i felt when she called me names and she talks behind my back. she berkata " oh i understand im sorry" and we both hugged :) all anda gotta do is talk things out and tell them how anda feel and if they dont accept anda for who anda are then anda should just end the friendship cause its not worth it
thx for listening :D ~lin ♥
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thanks
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np
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