Why is it a big deal to ask if someone is a virgin?

I don't know, it's not a big deal.

If anda feel like it's too personal, just don't share. There's no reason for anda to prevent other people from sharing.
Same applies to ALL questions.

Its so private because noone has 2 know what I do atau don't. It isn't about beibg ashamed of something. And sometimes, its just the way its asked and who is asking.
I think the only person that should know that, is the person that's gonna do something about it.

The way I see it. People are just embarrassed to admit they are a virgin. And in response to that they sometimes lash out at other people. They can clearly ignore the soalan but some don't and want to put their "two cents" in to say the least. I don't think they are implying it's bad to be a virgin. There's quite a few people who don't mind being virgins.

I do disagree with insulting people who ask such a soalan about virginity if they don't want to answer then they shouldn't.

But anda are correct if someone ask are anda a virgin they get insulted alot. I think it's somewhat equatable to the soalan to some females "how old are you". I've never understood that. Quite a few girls get upset if anda even ask that and they start saying anda shouldn't ask that of a lady. I really think that's stupid. There's nothing wrong with that soalan either yet people get offensive.

In short I believe the people who insulted the person asking that soalan quite possibly might be insecure about themselves in that certain subject and they lash out. That could be the reason why they do that.

Its none of your buisness?

Several people find it to be a personal matter that shouldn't be asked, while others don't. All of it is simply a matter of opinion.

i just don't feel comfortable with the question.

omg nobody berkata it wasn't random! its just personal! i mean anda don't go around telling Rawak strangers these things! some people might be ashamed on here of themselves for something related to that and they feel bad about themselves when there asked so deal with it! anda wouldn't go up to some stranger and ask this! no that is wrong! SO FUCK OFF BRO!

well...it is your personal life. and strangers wanting to know about your personal life....thats called a stalker.
its my personal life. and i don't have to share it if i don't want too.
deal with it.

Some people don't like to tell their personal business. I don't like that soalan either. I don't care if people ask on here though.

I know I'm only 12 and I'm young, but if I were in school, I would be PROUD to be a virgin.

Because others don't need to know about people's sex life.

cuz why would we share that infomation to some Rawak person... atau anyone if we dont want too