Serious problem. Please answer!

Are anda really concerned about whether your mom and grandma will continue to accept and Cinta anda if anda are indeed bi? I'm asking this because that's kind of the sense I'm getting from your explanation.

Your family may initially be in denial, especially as you've mentioned that you've had many crushes on boys. Their reaction could be the dreaded "this is just a phase," atau as anda wrote, a side-effect of whatever your medical condition is.

Are they generally supportive of LGBT people? If they are, that's definitely a plus for you. There's no one sure-fire way to broach this topic, but anda could bring up that anda know that your attraction to both boys and girls is genuine, that anda feel the same rush for an attractive (to you) girl as anda do for a boy. Do anda feel comfortable introducing your girlfriend? If anda think that would be too big of a step right now, then hold off. Take things in stages.

If your family is not supportive, because of religious beliefs, atau general discomfort, then, no-brainer, it will be lebih difficult. Are anda able to have discussions about sensitive topics with your family? Do they take your point of view seriously, atau do they dismiss your opinion because of your age? If anda are able to talk with them, this won't be one big discussion, but a series of them in which anda can respectfully get their point of view and also express yours.

In the best possible case, your family will accept anda as anda are. There is no formula to convince them, but keep talking, and good luck.

O.O......WELL, I DONT ACTUALLY SUPPORT GAY PEOPLE BUT.........WELLLL...JUST WHO CARES IF THEY NEED TO KNOW. SO anda WERE KISSED sejak A GIRL IN THE CHEEK AND U LIKED IT.......WELL JUST LET THEM THING anda ARE NORMAL, BESIDES, U NEVER HAD A CRUSH ON A GIRL ANYWAY, AND PEOPLE THIS DAYS ENOUGH IS BEING DONE TO SUPPORT GAY PEOPLE :O. SO JUST GO TO THEM AND SAY: "MOM, I THINK AM BI. DONT TAKE IT TO HARSH OKAY? I JUST NEEDED TO TELL U THIS SO IN THE FUTURE U DONT GO MAD" AND IF SHE DONT BELIVE, TEN WHO CARESIS THER PROBLEM. AND TRUST ME, anda ARE LUCKY AM NOT THE ANTI-GAY CHRISTIAN :O

I'm sorry in advance if I'm not helpful.

But,maybe anda can tunjuk them your girlfriend? Tell them that anda truly Cinta her from the bottom of your heart,it might work.

Wellll.....


My gf is bi.

Perhaps anda could introduce them to your gf? and sit down with your Gf, your mom and grandma, and explain your feeelings?

tunjuk them a 1 picture each of a male couple and female couple, then explain how anda feel about both.

I AM IN THE SAME FUCKING SITUATION AFTER I TOLD ME MOM I'M BI SHE DIDN;T BELIEVE ME AND I DON'T KNOW HOW TO CONVINCE HER I AM GBDSFKJDJNNHKLG;'FJK

Look at it this way
Your parents:
care for anda till around 18
Say they Cinta you
Ciuman anda good night
They try to teach anda wrong and right
Make anda strive for your best
They punish you
They discourage unfavorable (to them) behavior

Your potential love:
Cares for anda from when anda meet till death (18-60+)
Say the Cinta you
Ciuman anda with tongue goodnight
Teach anda to be naughty at utama and nice in public
Do your best and get a reward
Only punishment is make up sex
Encourage all behavior and lets anda do things they don't like anyways
Did I mention sex?

Which seems better to anda sejak comparison?

This video might help anda with you're cause :p
link

Good Luck .

If anda think you're bisexual, then anda probably are. It's a shame, but there are parents that find it hard to accept that their children are something else than heterosexual. It doesn't have to mean that they're against homosexuality atau bisexuality, but it may just need a while to make them get used to it.

What I'd do is to let it rest for a while.

EDIT: Ah, I read through a couple of answers, and I noticed your family is Christian. It's true that Christianinty isn't really anti-homosexual, but it is berkata in the bible that peolpe should procreate, and that's impossible with people who are homosexual. Sadly, people tend to see bisexuality as homosexuality. It's probably difficult for your mother to accept that you're bi. Try to give it some time.