i need Nasihat from nice, considerate ppl here plz & DONT CRITISIZE MY TYPING its faster

She doesn't like/love your sister anymore than she loves/likes you. Yes. We all have attitudes, no one is perfect. And if she's looking for a "perfect" child, she is not going to get one, because (like I berkata before) no one is perfect, why wont she let anda live with your grandma? If anda feel uncomfortable there, then why doesn't she just let u stay with your grandma?

I know exactly what you're going through. My mum loved my little sister a lot lebih then me, sometimes i think she still does. She would always stick up for her even when she was in the wrong, would never listen to me and always gave in to my sister when i was told no.
You're 14, don't run away. It will be the worst decision of your life. I ran away, i spent 2 years on the streets doing drugs, being dependent on alcohol to keep warm and doing things i am not proud of just to make a couple of quid to get something to eat. For the past 4 years i have had a steady relationship, have a utama and a little boy of my very own who i adore. I do not want anda to go through the same shite i did back then, it was absolutely terrible and i fear i will go back there.
1. anda have nowhere to go indefinately, a friend may put anda up for a few days atau weeks, but after that what's your plan?
2. anda are still in school, anda have no grades, no experience, how will anda support yourself if anda can't get a job to earn money?
3. living on the streets atau with "friends" can be very dangerous business, anda could get hurt, mugged, even raped and killed. DO NOT RUN AWAY.

As i've gotten older and a mother myself i now understand what your mother is thinking. Your sister is younger than you, anda are the adult, anda are supposed to know what is what, what the rules are and how to adhere to them, to be teaching your younger sister sejak example.

If anda feel the way anda do, anda should sit anda mum down and talk to her about it. She will listen, she will understand and anda can figure out a way to deal with it sejak compromising with each other.

No offense but I am having a bit of a hard time understanding you. Okay,so your mom likes your younger sister lebih and anda always had an attitude and anda feel sorry that anda aren't the perfect daughter. anda hate your mother and apparently she hates you. anda want to live with your grandma but she (I am assuming your mom) doesn't let anda even though she is walking distance from you.

I think anda need to talk to your mom and tell her your feelings. Also,you THINK she likes your little sister more. She might not. But really...talk to your mother.

I think anda should try talking to her, openly and honestly, and listen to her. A lot of things can be settled through talking and trying to understand the other person.

Eugh I feel your pain. My entire family practically worships my little sister and every time I even start to open my mouth I get shut down almost immediately. (and people wonder why I don't talk often).

The best Nasihat I can give anda is either:

a. Try to approach your mother, taking extra special care to avoid sarcastic phrases and calmly state how anda feel. If she interrupts anda to argue, just listen -don't start yelling, just hear what she has to say, and respond as maturely as anda can manage (I know it's really difficult, trust me, I do, but if anda start screaming at her she's not going to listen and nine chances out of ten you'll cause her to respond childishly and then anda just have a big mess). Hopefully if you're able to communicate your feelings and explain that your sarcasm/attitude is just a part of who anda are, then maybe she'll be a bit lebih lenient.

b. Just stop giving a damn about what she thinks altogether.

c. Talk to your grandmother and see if she's willing to let anda stay and maybe even get her to talk to your mother.

I know anda probably don't want any religious answer, but I gotta put one. I don't have any siblings, but I can kinda sense how it feels for you. Things like these just communication with your mom and God. You're probably wondering, "What does God have to do with this?". Well, first off, He's involved with everything! Second, He can help anda with these any kind of situation. Just pray and ask for help with it. I can kinda sense others personality and their feelings, and I think anda just naturally have attitude. My mom has it, and it just brings out her angry/grumpy side most of the time. anda might have it but I don't know. Like I said, communication is most important in this certain situation. Just talk to you're mom and sister about it and they should realize what's up and hopefully it should slowly get better if anda just keep talking. God will help anda out, He helps everyone out.

Again, I'm sorry to be that one guy to get religious. I hope things get better with your family and I'll also pray for you.

God Bless!

when I had to go through this stuff (I still am) its important to remember that even if your parents really don't like you, theres always gonna be someone out there who does. maybe its your best friend atau that guy anda have a thing for at school. and if anda were to run away, think about what anda would be doing to them. just stand your ground and fight your feelings! but whatever anda do, don't run away. just tell your mom. I know im going from one thing to another, but im just trying to make a point and doing a terrible job at it. yeah, but still. here, to make anda feel better, heres a picture of len.

Well when I had a mom , she never particularly liked one of us lebih . My dad also never did either . And I think that it's rude and disrespectful to your parents to want to alih with your grandma . anda parents Cinta anda and moving would just make them feel how anda feel right now .