A soalan for anda female Fanpoppers/female members of Fanpop. Gay guys can answer this too

Eh, it depends on what we mean sejak "sensitive" here. Are we describing someone who is emotionally vulnerable/needy, someone that is delicate with another person's feelings, atau are we using it as a vague synonym for "whiny baby"/being easily offended? I myself don't think of being sensitive as being whiny, but that's how most people seem to mean it, so that's kind of what I'm assuming here.


To avoid typing lebih of an essay than I inevitably will anyway, I'm going to make the pretty broad and general statement of "it depends". I couldn't deal with someone who was on the extreme side of it- because I'm kind of on the extreme side of it- but I couldn't really deal with anyone who thought they were a literal emotionless computer atau anything.
I need people that are tough enough to be able to deal with me when I have emotional outbursts. But I also need someone that's emotionally needy enough to let me take care of them, be clingy, fawn over them, and worship the ground they step on. I also need someone that's gentle with emotions because "tough love" just doesn't work for me and it makes whatever situation I'm in worse.

In terms of friendship it still really depends. My only real stipulation is if the person siphons the life out of me atau thinks every negative situation they go through is worse than what any of our other Friends have gone through ever. I don't have patience for that anymore.




I guess if we're just straight up talking about someone that's easily offended, whines a lot, atau is upset about nearly everything, then it's kind of a no-brainer that most people would find such a person to be difficult to deal with.

I wouldnt tarikh anyone who is overly sensitive. If anda cant take my sarcasm and my jokes and find everything offensive and all, then I REALLY cant tarikh you. This applies to guys and girls.

However it depends on what anda mean sejak 'overly sensitive'. I like a guy with emotions cos that whole 'manly-no-emotions' really sucks. So if anda mean they might be a bit needy atau might miss me atau whatever Im cool with that.

Im cool with sensitivity as long as its not crying, anger, and offense towards habits I do naturally.

(Bi guys could answer this, too...)
I'd tell them "suck it up, buttercup".

If I like the guy so much that he becomes my significant other, chances are that if he's oversensitive it's lebih than compensated for sejak positive traits.

If I don't like him enough for him to be my significant other atau my friend (meaning he doesn't have enough positive traits), then the oversensitivity will get on my nerves but I'll just dismiss him as melodramatic.

If he's already my friend I guess we might have a lot of debates over whatever he's sensitive about.

I don't know if I could do that because I have literally no filter. I say what I want to. I don't like walking on eggshells with people. For the sake of not wanting to offend someone over and over again without meaning to I don't think I'd be able to tarikh someone who is overly offended. It's just not fair for either of us.
I'm not compatible with that kind of person male atau female.

I can say that with certainty because I used to be bff's with this girl who took every single joke I made to heart/offensively. Eventually I kind of just told her that I thought it would be best if we just stopped talking because I was always offending her without meaning to and what not.

I know anda probably don't want to take relationship Nasihat from a whore like me, but I have one piece of Nasihat that has saved my relationship time and time again.

Don't talk to Fanpop about your relationship problems, talk to your man about your relationship problems. anda can't solve anything sejak getting pre-conceived ideas from a bunch of idiots on the internet, and then trying to apply them to your relationship.

So, talk to him.

If these two here can do it, so can you.

alih on! I don't want to be with someone THAT uptight.

someone like that? I would dump them

WHAT THE FUC* !!!!?!?!?