Misserable...

Your mind and your hati, tengah-tengah can completely disagree with each other. Even if your mind says "stop", your hati, tengah-tengah can still say "go".
Trying to force your hati, tengah-tengah to stop loving someone is pointless and it might even make it hurt more.

The hati, tengah-tengah itself is impossible to control and is unpredictable. Maybe your hati, tengah-tengah will fall high over heels in Cinta with another guy already seterusnya month. anda never know.

Your mind and hati, tengah-tengah will have to work together to alih on. If anda think about him (too much), anda will only remind your hati, tengah-tengah that you're heartbroken. Something anda should do is try to keep your mind on something else, whether it's a pet, friends, hobbies etc. While your mind is busy thinking about other things, your hati, tengah-tengah can recover from the heartbreak peacefully.

Support from Friends and family is always good. Having your loved ones supporting anda through a heartbreak can help anda focus and help your hati, tengah-tengah recover faster. anda know, to "fill the hole" in your heart.

One important thing anda should think about is not trying to rush things. The lebih anda Cinta someone, the harder it is to let go. anda need to take one step at the time. If anda think anda can't do it alone, anda should turn to a loved one for help.
(( Quote: "You'll alih on and be a champion in your seterusnya endeavor as anda did in your past ... Life is not a success-only journey. anda are going to get beat up along the way." - Dr Philip "Phil" McGraw, one of the world's best psychologists )).

I hope my answer helped a bit atau at least made some sense and I wish anda good luck.
If anda need someone to talk with and your Friends atau family members are busy, we're all ears.