If they told anda things they never meant atau when they promise anda things they never do, and when they make anda confused about almost everything, and make anda stuck with their lies. Follow your heart, your feelings, you'll know better. sejak asking this soalan i know you're not sure and having doubts, so from the beginning don't get your self into things anda know atau even doubt they will hurt anda atau cause anda any harm. it's only my opinion and i could be wrong. but no matter what just follow your heart. hope i could help...
When they 'drop hints' about something they want anda to do/give/etc to them, and anda do precisely as they hinted, then they say (usually 'most innocently') "But why did anda think I wanted that?" Someone who lead anda up the proverbial garden path like this is NOT WORTH IT.
Also: When they savage something about you, THEN PRAISE PRECISELY THAT THING IN SOMEONE ELSE. Do not endure double standards. Someone who indulges in DOUBLE STANDARDS is NOT WORTH IT.