Sick and tired of them: Help!

ok so im sick and tired of guys trying to get into my pants...thats all they seem to want from me!i REALLY dont want this anymore...i mean , they are literraly like "omg i miss anda sooo bad baby...i think about anda everyday...oh btw, what about that blowjob i asked you??" and im like SICK of that!
what should i do to attract them in a different way??i want something like a relationship, not just stupid fooling around...i want no lebih of this...but all i seem to attract is JERKS.