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Me & my best guy friend...well..i need help...

i like...love him right? but we are like brother and sister.

We talk on the phone all the time and we tell each other everything. he confesses in me and i confess in him and we have like little theraphy sessions! lol. We are so alike it's not even funny.

we both sing. Cinta the same Muzik and play instruments and have crazy hispanic families.

also like, everyone says that whenever i look away he looks at me (but not just looks...but like...LOOKS) and smiles his perfect little crooked smile. :). and then when i sing (cause we're in drama together) aparently he smiles and looks as if he so proud of me.

he's always telling me he loves me, but i take it as a joke. like he'll randomly breathe in really deeply and say "i Cinta you". and i laugh and be like "i Cinta anda too." and as in like a joke...i guess (though i really wanna say it for real).

The other hari we had "a fake fight" where he called me ugly (i knew he was joking) and i got "mad". we'll he climbed over this meja, jadual and wrapped his arms around me from the back. i berkata "i don't accept hugs from anda anymore." so then he held me tighter and put his chin on my shoulder and KISSED MY SHOULDER!

anda might be thinking "oh yea he likes you." but we've been Friends for so long and i know him so well but the only thing i'm never sure of is that i just can never ever tell if he likes somebody! i mean last tahun he likes two of my best friends. one rejected him the other went out with him for two months and then he broke up with her. and then at the end of that school tahun he started liking my enemy (hahaha).

he says he doesnt like her anymore (and i wanna trust him but...) i just dont know anymore. and i dont wanna say anything to him about me liking hm alot because last tahun someone told him and it was awkward for a while...

help? please!




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Eline_K said:
Wow, that's a difficult situation you've got yourself into.. Sound like anda really are in Cinta with him, right?

Personally I thinks it always good to first be friends, and then fall in love, because then anda can really be yourself around him. Some people act differently when they're in Cinta and they want the other person to like them.

In your situation anda have a friendship anda really don't want to lose. Telling him how anda feel without any warning might upset him and ruin your friendship. You'll have to decide whether atau not anda are prepared to put that on the line.

Maybe it's an idea to call in help from someone else. Is there someone anda know well (and trust) who also knows him? Maybe he/she could try to find out how he feels, in a way he won't know anda send him/her. Like saying something like: 'Well, anda two are so close.. anything lebih going on between you..?' Who knows he might open up. This might help anda find out how he feels about you. If he insinuates he likes anda too, the risk of losing him as a friend is lower, and your chances of Cinta are higher. If he says he really sees anda as 'just a friend', chances are things can get awkward again if anda speak up.

anda are in an extremely difficult situation. Be careful, anda have a lot to lose! But if anda believe there's a chance of true love: go for it!

Hope this helped, and let me know what happens!

Eline
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wow thanks! the only thin is...he lies and says he doesn't like somebody when he does! and he's done it to me, his BEST GUY FRIEND and almost everyone.
Paramorefanatic posted hampir setahun yang lalu
Alexina123 said:
Well, to me this seems extremely cute! Haha. I like how anda too are really close and anda have feelings for him, it's sweet. :) I just recently broke up with my boyfriend because it wasn't really working out, I think we needed to get to know each other first. Looks like anda have skipped a stage, though. :P
Anyway, I think anda should really go right out and tell him the truth. He seems like a nice enough guy that if he didn't like anda back in that way then he would still be your friend, right?
But the thing is, it's really hard to keep your feelings bottled up inside you. :/ Saying them even if he doesn't feel the same is much better than always wondering...what if...
It seems like anda would feel comfortable enough to tell him how anda really feel because how close anda two seem. :] and it's even great anda two share the same intersts and are alike.
anda say he lies about who he likes so maybe he's lying about if he likes anda atau not...he most probably does but is feeling like anda and doesn't want to let his feelings out.
Personally, I think anda should invite him round your house atau call him, which ever is easier for you...Then say to him how anda feel but make sure anda mention that it's okay if he doesn't like anda like that, and that anda will always be his friend no matter what.
I'm sorry if I didn't help at all! Good luck, though. :] Hope it does work out and anda do get with him, looks like it could last long.
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moonlightgirls1 said:
i understand what anda are going through try to tell him how anda feel evan if its hard and if is a real friend he will stand sejak anda and anda never know he might have feeligns for anda to!x
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Sinna_Hime_chan said:
Normally I might not say this~ in fact I have yet to say this to ANYONE in over a tahun on fp.

Throw him down and just Ciuman him!

He'll be shocked and might not respond like anda like atau want but give him a hari atau two to let it sink in. lol
.......see what happens.

-Your other choice~ Ask him if he has ever thought of anda as lebih than just Friends atau in a way outside the friendzone/sisterly way...

[PS. I have been with my bro/best guy friend for almost a tahun as his gf and I did not think of him as anything lebih - we were Friends almost a tahun and now things are STEAM'N HOT XD... Good Luck]
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Normally I might not say this~ in fact I have yet to say this to ANYONE in over a tahun on fp. [b]Throw him down and just Ciuman him![/b] He'll be shocked and might not respond like anda like atau want but give him a hari atau two to let it sink in. LOL .......see what happens. -[b]Your other choice~ Ask him if he has ever thought of anda as lebih than just Friends atau in a way outside the friendzone/sisterly way...[/b] [PS. I have been with my bro/best guy friend for almost a tahun as his gf and I did not think of him as anything lebih - we were Friends almost a tahun and now things are STEAM'N HOT XD... Good Luck]
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