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Ok...I need to get some outside opinions on this:

Ok...Been dating this guy for a few months...we've offically been using the "boyfriend and girfriend" titles... so here's the story...30 saat to midnight on New Years eve...his cell phone rings..he picks it up thinking its family...well it isnt...its some girl calling to tell him "Happy New Year"...he gets all nervous and flustered and breaks out into this huge sweat...I mean anda can clearly see he's nervous about this call...well it seriously ruined our first New Years together...I wasnt upset about the call...just his reaction to it...he says they're just Friends and that she's engaged to another guy...so now we come to last night....I'm at utama and I text him and he doesnt response until like 45 mins later (which is very unlike him) and it turns out that they went to makan malam, majlis makan malam together. He says that they're "just friends" but today I found out that her fiancee dumped her. I am very hurt and upset sejak this whole thing. Half my Friends say to dump him ...the other half says that I should tunjuk him trust and stay with him. Any thoughts?

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jacob4ever57 said:

For right now i would say to stay with him. Your other Friends are right. anda have to trust the other person in your relationship. But if anda think he shows signs of cheating definitely confront him about it, and make it clear that it's unacceptable and if he does it one lebih time he's outta there. But make sure if anda do accuse him, anda know for sure that he did, atau you'll look like a fool who doesn't trust him.
So yeah for now just stay with him unless something doesn't seem right. ;) Good luck!

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anda rock...thanks

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summer448 said:

i say ask him straight up
cause he is oviousy hidding something from you

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Lunzzy1 said:

I would ask him and whatever he tells anda and after that what ever anda feel is right anda have to do it and make sure its the right thing to do. Follow your hati, tengah-tengah :) :( ;) Lunzzy1!!!!!

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Thanks! ^-^

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scogburn said:

The above jawapan are good, and I would also let him know that this bothers anda and hurts your feelings. If he does not want to hurt you, he should respect your wishes not to see this girl again. Also, any time he talks to her, he should tell anda about it. anda tell him anda want to know when they talk and who called who. Hang in there, if he really cares about you, it will work out.

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Thanks...I guess I just need to step back and breathe.....

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icewolf10 said:

dump him

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R33n33sm3 said:

well,this is a very difficult situation,you've been put in.
Isn't it hard to want to trust someone though there are this emotions anda feel anda can't trust him?

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There are alot of possibilities...
[i] *Possibly she was he's ex.before he met you,he might want to clear out everything between them,explaining her,that he met anda now and it's better to remain friends.

*He might really be her friend,and nothing more!

*And ofcourse it's also likely to pretend they're Friends and eventually be his double girlfriend.

*Possibly,know feels something for the girl.
For now everything should be good,
I agree anda should trust him,...
though don't fall inside the lie.
If this continues and he starts going frequently out with 'his friend' be sure to ask him if anda could go also with him.
Study they're faces,
what does it tell?
is it anything behind the friendly smiles they're sharing?
Is it lebih than just pure friendship?

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djtt said:

ok i cant pretend to be an expert but id just put myself out of my misary and dump him.

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richard_angel2 said:

stay with him. because the other girl just need someone to talk to, especially in hard time (her fiance dumped her)

maybe she doesn't have Friends and your boyfriend is the only person she can talk to. . .

so i suggest anda stay with him =)

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Isabella_tran said:

Forget that boy. He is not worthy. If anda still Cinta him, talk directly to him atau his "friend"

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