Miller has described himself as queer.He has stated "The way I would choose to identify myself wouldn’t be gay. I’ve been attracted mostly to ‘shes’ but I’ve been with many people and I’m open to Cinta wherever it can be" and that he has "a lot of really wonderful Friends who are of very different sexes and genders. I am very much in Cinta with no one in particular". He has also detailed, "I've had many, anda know, 'happy ending sleepovers' in my early youth... my period of exploration—I think that's essential. Anyone who hasn't had a gay moment is probably trying to avoid some confrontation with a reality in their life".
