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learnig to live without Cinta

lately i been finding myself lonely romantically, but unlike in other occasions i don't want to find anybody. there are ppl of the opposite sex i like but i know they don't want a serious relationship with me and i am ok with that. but, there is this guy that i don't find attractive who keeps calling me to go out with him and that makes me really uncomfortable. i also find myself lebih attracted to the same sex, but not enough to act on it. so i don't know if that makes me bi, gay atau asexual atau maybe this feelings will pass.
 londonsrock posted hampir setahun yang lalu
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chickencheese said:
I think anda should tell the guy who keeps calling anda that anda don't want to go out with him, and he needs to stop. If he can see that anda really don't want to go out with him he will get bored and give up. atau if he doesn't tell someone anda trust who can talk to him.

I'm not sure about whether anda are gay atau not, but if anda decide anda are then there's absolutely nothing wrong with that. It's your choice.

Hope that was helpful (I'm useless at this sort of question)
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posted hampir setahun yang lalu 
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That is brill advise!
heartmerlin2 posted hampir setahun yang lalu
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thanks!
chickencheese posted hampir setahun yang lalu
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Thank you, for the advice. I always have trouble rejecting suitors b/c I don't wana be maen but I guess I just have to be really direct.
londonsrock posted hampir setahun yang lalu
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yeah if anda say it nicely hopefully he won' be offended
chickencheese posted hampir setahun yang lalu
heartmerlin2 said:
Just to add onto what chickencheese has said...
It really is perfectly fine, and normal to not want a relationship and still be romantic.

And for anda not knowing if your bi, gay atau asexual, I have read in many mags that at teanage age, (expesh the start) your emotions get confused and anda can feel that your attracted to someone your actually not.

Best of luck.x
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Thanks, I really don't know why I feel like that till now b/c I am 21 but i hope this will pass.
londonsrock posted hampir setahun yang lalu
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I'm sure it will, just give it some time. ;) Good luck!
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MephilesTheDark said:
If the case is that you've just broken up with someone, trust me when I say that however broken apart anda may feel, the time will come when anda find someone who can heal the open scar the former has left within you.

Life isn't a race, all anda have to do is come out on the other side unharmed.

Don't put yourself into the feeling that anda 'need' someone, because this is not always the case. anda just have to wait and find someone anda truely have feelings for, whether it be the same sex atau not.

As for the one who keeps calling you, I suggest anda let him know that anda don't share the same feelings about him. Remember also that, however unfortunatly, some guy's just want to get anda into bed.

Your sexuality is but another aspect of this issue. If anda are attracted lebih so to the same sex, let it be and don't try to suppress it.

I wish anda but the best of luck. =)


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posted hampir setahun yang lalu 
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Thank you, I haven't been in a long term relationship for about 3 years. I think the pressure comes from the fact that all my Friends are paired up. But is like anda berkata I think I don't need to be with anyone until I c my Friends with their partners.
londonsrock posted hampir setahun yang lalu
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Couldn't agree more!
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