HELP!!!!!

Honestly? I know anda probably won't want to hear this, but the best thing anda can do is let her go. Let her think what she wants.

I've gone through way too many sucky friendships to be able to spot true Friends and fake friends. If this "friend" doesn't like anda for who anda are and insults anda and says you're "the problem in her life" that's HORRIBLE! Why would anda want atau need a friend like that?

True Friends would never say that to you. Sure they may be angry but real Friends give anda a chance to explain yourself no matter what. This girl didn't give anda any chances. Plus, she's choosing her other friend over you, which hurts, I know. It makes a really strained, dysfunctional relationship when someone comes in the middle but anda can't blame it all on the "other friend." It's your bffs fault just as much so, if not more, for falling under the other friend's influence and totally dissing/ditching you.

Sorry for the cold, hard truth but anda can get so many better Friends that treat anda well. DON'T SETTLE! NEVER SETTLE! I used to, but I've learned from my mistakes and learned to not go back to the people that cause anda heartache and drama baecause they're not worth it at all. I know it sounds cheesy and cliche but it's the truth.

Truly a good true friend would NEVER EVER say anything so horrible, I had kindof the same problem when I moved from America to New Zealand Every one made fun of me, the way I talked mostly, I started to sit with a group that looked friendly enough, then one hari we were talking about what our favourite things were and I berkata I wanted to be a vet, one of the girls, for some reason berkata that I couldn't hang around with them because I was ruining their "social credit". I learned soon learned that I needed to find better Friends then them. Pretend that anda don't care and shrug it off, it's hard, but after a while she will get bored just teasing anda about something that anda don't care about. Good luck and i know anda will find better Friends if anda just keep smiling

Talk to the other friend. Ask what's going on and find out why she's doing this, wether it's on purpose atau because she got the wrong impression of you. If she tells anda off than you'll know who the problem is, and if she realizes that she was wrong than ask her to help anda talk to your friend. If anda can't talk to the other friend than try to get to your friend again. if she won't talk to anda than perhaps she simply wasn't as good a friend as anda thought she was.

I can say that you're friend isn't very nice I mean "the problem in her life"? COME ON! She obviously dosen't want to resolve things.......but that dosen't mean that anda can't tunjuk a little of that self-defense in you. anda can stand up for your self! Don't let it get to you. And everybody knows that the ones causing problems for someone is lebih weak than the victim.(Right now you're the victim.)

i think sara is right. anda need to let her go, if she thinks you're the problem in her life, then just leave it at that. right now, i think you're the good guy right now, just do this: seterusnya time she calls, make her listen to what anda think of all of this. but if she still hates you, then it's her lost...PS anda sound like a great friend:)